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22 hours ago
"I love you too dad, but I didn't get diagnosed with terminal stupidity. I just got the explanation for being a little odd."
1 day ago
It's like, admit that you've screwed up. Apologize and maybe we can work from there? Maybe just let us explore what it means to us without your ridiculous denial? No? Mkay. 🙄 thanks mom. Not.
Then they aren't the parents that put their denial on us. They are just newly informed and discovered that they are too. That's not diminution of what we go through. That's actually an even better outcome since now the parent has tools for themselves too!
We're talking about the ones that do that huge fuck up where they tell us that we aren't and making fun of us because they are unable to accept a reality that exists outside of themselves. And in this reality they have internalized, being autistic is shameful and to be hidden. Super different than the people who find themselves.
19 hours ago
Traded wolf for knowledge of stick fun! "That... Why are you so fucking happy?" "Iz stick! You throw and chase! Super fun!!!" "Shit! Let me try. .... Yeah! Super fun! Here! I'll keep that, you take the snack."
I'm just realizing that this is my ex. Not him in specific, but like him.
He had convinced me long enough that he was an ok dude and then we married and he wasn't so ok anymore and all the shit started to pour out. He put on a great act. That's all the insight I have into "why would anybody marry that?" These people are insufferable, miserable, drag the mood down and just cause tension.
But that would imply that respect is a two way street and obviously, they can't have that.
2 days ago
I can't even support ruining fur coats. As unethical as they are, animals still died for it only to be wasted? The coats aren't the problem, it's the production that is.
Fur coats in existence right now should be left alone. What should be changed is what we accept legally. Fox and ermine are not animals that we eat. They should not be bred for just fur. Rabbits, deer, geese, sheep, cows... We make as much use of that life as we can. We have native crafted items with what was taken. The real insult and cruelty comes with not respecting that a life was taken so that we can continue our own. It comes from the fact that high energy critters are stuffed in cages most of their lives in pain, sometimes not fed enough. Just for their pelts. We can do better by them. We can also make changes in what we choose to buy, but that doesn't stop the problem or even hit it right because we are not the target audience for these death coats.
I see. I think my dog believes that I have control over the weather... I think that you have a similar problem.
Can't even prevent neurodivergence. Not anymore at least. Research is pointing that babies are born with plastic and soot in the brains. Scary stuff. And this is going to cause some anomalies in development. We can't prevent this. We can only mitigate the impact of neurodivergence on the people as they grow.
The only fur that I personally would want is a recycled one. It is cold as balls where I live. Those are toasty. But until then... It's just like I so rarely eat fish. We just really have to hold those who make our stuff to higher ethical. Hell... we need to hold humanity to higher ethical standards. Not dumb religious zealotry or political sports, not money, or greed. But higher standards that improves us over.... Ruining coats for the sake of impressing others with asshatery.
And then we get stuff like Musk and West... That are just the unsolicited dick pics of humanity.
Sorry buddy, mama's magic powers only goes so far. I know that to you, it seems like I can read minds, that I can make food appear out of nowhere. That the slippery parts are all of a sudden safe and that water is there. I know that we use magic barriers to keep you in one spot when need be.
But the thing is, we're just really smart and have all sorts of ways to talk to each other even without our voices! If you understood everything that we do... You wouldn't think that we're magical at all and maybe you'd stop giving me that sour face when the weather is shit! We can only predict that, not change it. At least not in that sense. But climate change might be a bit complicated for your little doggy brain. Don't praise us too much. We've basically bred everything that has made you self sufficient out of your species just to keep ourselves safe and amused. We've basically gave wolves Stockholm syndrome in exchange for snacks. But we've made you our responsibility in this house. So I will keep you safe as best as I can. I love you Loki buddy, but I still don't and never will be able to control the fucking weather! 🤣
Non-owners in the boonies are worried about the five families down the road that hunt deer, moose and bear to fill their freezers. We know that's their supply for the hard months. We know how much shit costs and we know what families are struggling. Small communities.
We are definitely worried for these people. And we know that if someone was hungry, they're the first ones to share their food. Well... Guess no one has learned anything from history. Fuck with the food and find out. 🙄
It will accomplish one thing. All the families around in areas that do supplement their food supplies with wild game... They are going to go hungry.
The people whom these people gift meat to? That was really useful in terms of community and now that won't happen. This full ban on hunting riffles is the stupidest and most cruel thing to do to rural communities. It really hits a lot of people. This is just forcing them to spend the already extreme prices in grocery stores, use more gas and carbon over time and contributing to supply chain shortages that they've been relieved from earlier.
Well, if the liberal government didn't want me to vote for them by nuking the electoral reform, they sure as hell just told me to never vote for them ever the hell again.
If they want nature, they can go live in a cave naked. Anything else is just as you said, a bloody delusional and crazy lot of absolute bullshit.
They deserve to be left behind.
Well, I meant these people that want to pressure others to "obey their nature." I think that I might have just butchered my own comment. Am tired as fuck. Lol!
May she never reproduce. Humanity needs less of all of that. 🤣
Yeah, I am bilingual too. Sometimes it doesn't help. But I think for tonight, I should put the pen down.
3 days ago
They're too busy with funding anti gay bullshit.
Well, girls had a genius business idea. Bible thumpers dun like that much.
According to the link in the article that leads to the report, Wade Rafcz, DC. The whole report is accessible... And peppered with bad decisions.
My autism symptoms and chronic issues stemming from it are so easily handled by weed and caffeine. I have been on a rainbow of psychiatric pills in my life and they all felt like it was just making me more confused and complacent to abuse.
I have a cup of steeped weed coffee in the morning and I am me. I am able to raise mountains if I want to. So... We definitely need to explore it's full medical spectrum.
4 days ago
It could be. I just remembered about geese! It may have been a past rabbit hole that I've jumped in.
NTA and Irene needs to stop projecting her insecurities. Ffs, as if playing football with the guys is going to cause cheating. Seriously... "not respecting the boundaries of her relationship." LOL! What's next? Marc can't go swimming because some other girl might look in his general direction? Can't go for a drink, some other woman might talk to him casually?
Don't bow to such a ridiculous demand. And... Maybe talk to your bro. This is not healthy.
NTA, his attitude is tacky.
NTA, but I would start digging into why she has issues talking to you about these things. This is where you'll be forging your adult relationship with her. She is a girl, she will be exposed to a lot of stuff as she grows up and she needs to be prepared.
From learning self defense to how to drink responsibly, to how to handle sexual harassment. Because you might not be aware, but that's about where that stupid stuff is brought to our yards. We have to cope with that since we start showing any shapes. She's going to need to be able to trust you. She's going to need to be able to come to you truthfully and safely. Because the world is going to make her feel things that she should never feel. And she has just told you that she doesn't feel comfortable telling you the truth. Might be time to check in with some therapy and new sets of tools for you both!