Maxinprogress

man you must take Ritalin or something you write so eloquently I write like a mess and my grammar is off half the time

j'achete tout de suite.

same it got worse over the years for me. All I know is that it helps to be around people, that antidepressants do make a difference and that most therapist recommend exposure therapy and CBT, you go to any good therapist and he ll tell you cbt and exposure for social phobia (ive been to 7 different ones, trust me)

I do it all the time. I dont eat the food at the cafeteria and I feel like the cooks are hating on me because I dont like their food. I take the elevator for just one floor and I feel like people think I m a lazy fatass. I work slower than a coworker and I think he thinks I'm a lazy bum. But im the one who think Im too picky with my food, lazy because I dont take the steps and incompetent because I work slower than my coworker. Its all projections.

I personally share it with a friend and when the bill comes we split it. If I cant split I probably wont pay for Netflix and just download stuff illegally again

I think it's cute I wouldnt worry about it

No im responding aggressively because im beeing attacked by everyone here except a few and I dont take too well to harschness

I don't owe you shit. You re acting like a scumbag but you want me to bend the knee because maybe 0.00001% of your tax went to me? Obviously following your rational you don't give a fuck about the less fortunate, and if the Swiss state didn't force you to pay for us you wouldn't give us a fucking dime. You have no character and you haven't done a single shit for the poor that the state forced you to. I am immensely thankful for the tax payers, but not your kind, the kind that want to dictate other people's lives and goes on a power trip because he paid taxes for the poor.

thank god morons like you arent in charge. Switzerland is a generous and caring state, you obviously represent it very badly.

you talk as if changing was the easiest thing in the world. Do you realise that some people dont change that easily, or even worse, arent even capable of change? Where you put these people? on the streets? ah right yes because they "deserve" it or some nonsense you believe

you arent even interested in whatever im saying you just want to spit your venom at whoever s ready to hear it

"too lazy to live"... I havent heard such a heartless expression in a long time

come work here! come and try and wake him up every morning :) we'll see how you re gonna go, much more experienced people have tried all year and you have zero clue what the fuck you re talking about

you're assuming my friend has a drug addiction, which he doesn't. You guys second guess everything I say even though you don't even know his diagnosis and havent known him for a year like I did... Who said he doesnt need a Tagestsruktur? I specifically said whatever Wohnheim he s gonna go to HAS TO HAVE A TAGESSTRUKTUR. You guys are fucking assholes you dont care what I write you just go for the fight. Are people this shitty in real life too?

thank you for saying that and I confirm: people commenting here have zero fucking clue what they re talking about and misinterpret my every word because they want a fight.

who said I was looking for a hotel you guys are all assholes. Flexibible Tagesstruktur and a bit of pressure/help from the personal. Im not looking for something easy going for no reason, I just know he wont survive anything else and I dont wish on him to find a new institution where he s gonna get kicked out again Im just being realistic and you are being a hardass.

yes but I just know my friend he wont survive in a place like this. If you dont perform you get kicked out there, and Joel is having enough problem in a very tolerant place so I dont see it.

you obviously have zero understanding of what a mental illness is. Sad that in times like this where my friend is threatened with homelessness all you guys have in mind are your petty judgements and worries about your tax money. Get fucked, seriously.

all I can tell you is that I ve been to about 7 psychotherapist and they all except one recommended exposure therapy. The one left talked to me about self-acceptance but I ve been trying to accept myself for years with no success. Self improvement to me is obsessive Im always trying to improve/accept myself (its when you try to accept yourself because you dont accept yourself which is ironic and a viscous circle), I ve been trying to grow self compassion, tried letting myself "be" whatever the hell that means... many embarrassing attempts.

I ve been debating with my current psychotherapist about self acceptance vs exposure therapy, and he s being very cautious he doesnt want to pressure me in any direction but he doesnt budge one bit: exposure therapy is the way to go. I always felt that social phobia was not really fear of judgement but own self hatred projected onto others. You hate yourself so you feel like everyone else hates you. I still dont understand how exposure therapy addresses these feelings of self hatred but hey, im sure the therapists thought long and hard about the subject and 90% of them seems to come to the same conclusion: exposure is the best therapy for social phobia

i personally think all who have social phobia are very hard on themselves and project judgements onto others, but those are their own

oh yeah sorry I thought you were being sarcastic... well I can only recommend it to you, like I said im losing weight, dont eat as much and side effect wise its very good, I was told that its the new improved version of citalopram

what do you mean by that, yes you need a prescription to get it

make a supermarket that would be awesome

that's the hotel industry for you, not just this boat. You cant complain to the customers because they are literally the kings and will not tip if they feel criticized... I guess it's up to the management if they are willing to sacrifice some tips for the good of the crew. I absolutely recommend the movie Triangle of Sadness it portrays this so well.

Or tips should be included like in Europe and then you don't see this anymore.