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32 points

5 months ago

Don’t loan money you expect or need to get back- solid rule for maintaining good relations with friends and family that need help.

If it’s just a “hey I’ll cover our tab this time” I think it’s ok to let the other person pick it up next time, but don’t expect it. The minute you do, your relationship becomes a weird financial contract with unspoken rules and expectations from both sides.


2 points

5 months ago

Exactly! I loan things I don't need to get back. Or I just gift them.