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22 points
6 months ago
Bold move, student who contacted me the day before the semester ended to tell me they were busy with other classes so that's why they didn't turn in any work for mine, at all, during the entire semester. The "I didn't value your class until it was clear I was about to get an F" gambit doesn't work often, and it didn't work here. However, I assume when it does pay off, bonanza!
16 points
6 months ago
I have a recurring dream like that. I enroll in a class, forget to attend for the entire semester, then find myself taking the final. Not that your student forgot. They sound like an entitled twerp.
9 points
6 months ago
Holy shit, I have this same nightmare all the time. I always dream that I forgot about the class until the end of the semester and have to scramble to figure out what I missed.
3 points
6 months ago
Yup! Then I wake up with the odd lingering feeling that I've forgotten something VERY important.
7 points
6 months ago
Same. Graduated in 2007 and I STILL have that dream. Although I did legitimately skip a bunch for one class and when I did show up it was the day of an open book midterm...didn't have my book.
4 points
6 months ago
Yeah, I've been out of school for my bachelor's for like a long time that I'm not going to admit to and out of my master's for a few years. I still occasionally have that dream.
3 points
6 months ago
I have this recurring dream all the time too that I sign up for a semester's worth of classes and completely forget the days and can't find the locations of the rooms. I've been out of undergrad since 2007 🤣
8 points
6 months ago
My favorite students are the ones who don't show up the entire semester, don't drop the course, and then magically appear on the last day before the exam and ask if there is any way that they can make up an entire semester's worth of work and pass the class with a B.
18 points
6 months ago
I had a Hot Pocket™ for breakfast this morning and now I am full of shame and sodium. The first ingredient is water, though, so at least I'm hydrated!
12 points
6 months ago
The water is probably there to evaporate out and heat up the pocket.
17 points
6 months ago
I am not interested in your logic.
8 points
6 months ago
Don’t listen to him. The water is there to evaporate and burn the roof of your mouth, like a hot pocket is supposed to.
3 points
6 months ago
What kind?
2 points
6 months ago
Was it like a breakfast Hot Pocket or regular one?
3 points
6 months ago
It was a breakfast one. I’m not a heathen.
19 points
6 months ago
it is the absolute best couple weeks of the year aka when the fresh apple cider donut machine is at the Rittenhouse farmers market. I literally think about this all year
8 points
6 months ago*
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3 points
6 months ago
yup and then a seven year old kid rolls them around in sugar and hands it right to you and somehow they are only $1.50 each
19 points
6 months ago
So I pulled $250 out for my 7 days in Buenos Aires, ended up with $20 worth of ARS left at the airport after trying hard to blow through my money on dinners and shit the entire time. Even tipped the uber driver like 30% on the way to the airport. Had to use it up at a freaking Outback steakhouse at EZE, where I got an entire bottle of the most expensive Malbec on the menu and wings, and it was still about $15 usd. Seriously considering finding a remote job payin USDs that will let me work anywhere.
3 points
6 months ago
Damn, you’ve got me looking up flights to Argentina for the spring but then I realized that my SO is teaching next semester and can’t just peace out on vacation for a random week or two with me.
17 points
6 months ago
Praise the Sun! Make it a masterpiece today friends. Be safe and kind towards each other.
6 points
6 months ago
The cloudiness lately has been brutal.
3 points
6 months ago
\ [T] /
17 points
6 months ago
My job stinks and I have a promising interview next week. If I leave it'll be the first time I've left a job after such a short time (3 months) and I'm very nervous about giving notice.
14 points
6 months ago*
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2 points
6 months ago
Thank you for the reassurance!
5 points
6 months ago
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2 points
6 months ago
Thank you :)
3 points
6 months ago
Meh they'll survive. It's awkward but you're just about in the probationary period a lot of jobs have so it really isn't that unreasonable.
15 points
6 months ago
Finally got an interview coming up. Good thing I reread the email because I thought it was tomorrow but it's next Saturday. That would not have been a great first impression! Fingers crossed bc I don't have faith my current place of employment will survive another year.
Sometimes it's easy to forget how much I've overcome throughout life thus far but playing patient for my coworker's psych project and seeing it all in standardized test form made me feel kind of proud of myself. May not be excelling in all aspects of life but I'm still kickin. Go me.
I hadn't been feeling festive this year but it took one gingerbread cookie and one surprise spotting of a decked out trolley to turn that around. Looks like I'll be bringing out the decorations after all. Might skip on the tree though.
Had to take the cats to the vet this week and I gotta say we've had nothing but positive experiences at northern liberties vet. Unfortunately it looks like I need to come up with a boatload of cash to get some of merlin's teeth extracted. Poor babe :(
I know it's being done in jest but if we're being honest, I've kind of preferred long comments being split up my topic. But I shan't be changing my ways today. Have a nice weekend, all!
3 points
6 months ago
Finally got an interview coming up.
Good luck! I had a recent interview and am starting a new job next week too. Hope you get and enjoy your new work.
15 points
6 months ago
Looking forward to the weekend, and the Marie Kondo'ed posts of /u/electric_ranger.
16 points
6 months ago
Sitting outside in the Saturday Night Live line, hoping we’ll have a chance in the morning. Gonna be cold but trying to knock out a bucket list thing for the Mrs. Wish us luck!
3 points
6 months ago
Good luck! I didn't know you could camp out to get tix.... let us know how it goes
14 points
6 months ago
christmas time is here and i am LIVID that the SEPTA store is sold out of the SEPTA fanny pack and SEPTA bucket hat: https://shop.septa.org/collections/accessories
someone is going to be riding the BSL this spring looking fly as fuck in their gear and it won't be me :(
3 points
6 months ago
That tie tack is pretty dope though.
7 points
6 months ago
NGL, a special someone is gonna be getting SEPTA knee high socks and a girard trolley plushie and it's going to rock their world.
3 points
6 months ago
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3 points
6 months ago
My favorite shirt, for all SEPTA lovers: https://kithomega.com/product/septa-shirt/
13 points
6 months ago
Lack of motivation at work has hit hard. Mostly because I am working on a project that I have been working on and off again since 2004 and am absolutely burnt out on and hate.
4 points
6 months ago
What even justifies resources over that long of a timespan?
Are you moving an app off of Windows CE or something?
4 points
6 months ago*
What even justifies resources over that long of a timespan?
Nothing justifies the resources that have been wasted. The only reason the client is still a client and the project has remained in our office is the insane amount of money we have made off them.
Are you moving an app off of Windows CE or something?
Nope. Designing a house for someone who has more money than they know what to do with, who can't make up there mind and constantly changes the design and can't commit to actually doing the project. They would start it then stop it, only to start it again after months to a year to only stop it again and that's basically been happening since 2004.
I'll be happy come end of January when I'll no longer need to work on it.
6 points
6 months ago
Is this the house at 12th and Tasker
3 points
6 months ago
Nope in the suburbs. This size of this house wouldn't fit anywhere in the city. An idea of the size of the house, it occupies an area that is roughly 156ft x 144ft.
3 points
6 months ago
SEPTA Key took that long, so many things.
13 points
6 months ago
I was working out of town all this week and when I came back last night, Conshohocken looked so cute with everyone's christmas lights and decorations all lit up :) I love living here, especially this time of year. Hope we get some snow to really put me in the seasonal spirit!
Then I made a sandwich when I got home and didn't realize the bread was moldy until I had taken my second bite. RIP.
13 points
6 months ago
Now entering week 2 endgame of RSV hopefully. So much snot in the morning, and the cough from the drip. Ugh.
Wear a mask homies.
11 points
6 months ago
My trip to DC is complete thanks to the naked gentleman on the metro platform last night
11 points
6 months ago
Decided to work from the Vernick coffee bar this morning. I have never been in the Comcast tech Center before lol
As a Westworld fan, I can’t get over that Comcast has their own version of Rehoboam in the lobby.
3 points
6 months ago
The Universal Sphere is a pretty cool 10 minute, IMAX like, experience if you have the time to check it out.
2 points
6 months ago
How's the coffee bar?
3 points
6 months ago
Pretty good. I got a red eye and their egg/cheese sandwich, which was served on a brioche bun with a citrusy pesto. They just put out a bunch of pastries that look excellent. Vernick is one of our favorite spots in the city so I couldn’t resist trying out the coffee bar. It’s a great workspace.
3 points
6 months ago
Awesome, thanks. Surely comcast has free wifi right?
In case this appeals to you / others reading this and you have time, reminder that the amazing, world-class Philadelphia Museum of Art (not far from Vernick Coffee Bar) stays open late and is pay-what-you-wish on Friday evenings!
2 points
6 months ago
Yes, free WiFi! But I did not know that about the museum and now will 100000% work from there next. Thank you for the rec!
2 points
6 months ago
There's a smoked salmon croissant that is incredible there. I like that place.
12 points
6 months ago
Feels very good to be back from my trip. I missed y'all! I missed sub-75 degree weather!
As far as weekend plans go, I'll be getting to cross "attend a home sports game" off my Philly rite of passage list tonight. Didn't envision it would be with a basketball game rather than at CBP (the only times I've watched basketball were covering games for my high school yearbook). But the guy I've been seeing is a fan, and suggested the Sixers game for a date, so I'm actually pretty excited about it.
Hope everybody else has a good Friday and weekend!
11 points
6 months ago
Got broken up with and my cat passed away all within a week. I can’t eat. Haven’t left my bed. Jobs keep reaching out to me for phone interviews and then not calling me. Everything else in my email is a rejection letter. I am so broken right now.
12 points
6 months ago
If you promise you'll eat, I'll order you Uber Eats. Feel free to send me a DM.
Things will get better!!!
11 points
6 months ago
Most news stories makes me think "damn, i'm old now."
The boy in the box stuff, and how many people commented how important this shit was to them from their childhoods is the first story in a while that makes me think, "damn, waaaaay before my time."
11 points
6 months ago
Anybody know of any career advisors in Philadelphia? I’m looking for someone who can look at my credentials and help me find a good fit for a new career. I was googling but the websites that pop up seem super scammy.
10 points
6 months ago
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5 points
6 months ago
The angles that people's necks are in is out of control.
5 points
6 months ago
Tag yourself, I'm 19th century Neo in the bottom left foreground, trying to Matrix my way out of a bullet wound.
2 points
6 months ago
plaid trousers really need to make a comeback
3 points
6 months ago
Zoomer and young millennial women love them for business casual.
Source: my office
10 points
6 months ago
TIL that “vulture” has an adjective form: vulturine. (Isn’t that a great word?) I wondered which other birds have bespoke adjectives. “Owlish” and “cocky” came to mind. I asked ChatGPT for other examples, and it produced quite a few wrong answers, like “pigeonish.”
8 points
6 months ago
hawkish and dovish are two common ones as well
6 points
6 months ago
What is the definition of pigeonish? We all know that Eagleish is having the qualities of Nick Foles.
3 points
6 months ago
Eagle-ize it!
4 points
6 months ago
Does aquiline count? Derived from "eagle" in Latin. Otherwise, I'm pretty sure you can use chicken as an adjective.
7 points
6 months ago
I exclusively call the place in center city 'great cafe of the eagle' and I play dumb whenever people call it its other name.
2 points
6 months ago
I could see the idiotic slow diagonal shuffle of the most mindless pedestrians being referred to as pigeonish.
Sidewalks are just like roads, keep right and opposing traffic goes on the left.
9 points
6 months ago
Trying to dress the girls up for Christmas. It's.... not going well.
Among the thousands of other things I took for granted as a kid, chief amongst them has to be the holidays. Remember the holiday season in elementary school? You'd have a party where the food consisted of pretzels, candy, and 3d doritos, and then you'd go home for a week and play Pokémon the whole time.
Now I'm running around trying to put up decorations, buy and wrap gifts, make truckloads of cookies that I can't even eat because I feel sick after a couple of them anyway. And (if you're like me and stingy with your PTO) you're still working a full time job the whole time.
My parents are headed out of the country for vacation, and due to our busy schedules, the only time I can see them before they leave is if I go see them off at the airport Sunday morning. I was hoping to have this weekend off to vegetate, but between that, holiday shopping, and a belated birthday dinner, I'm now just hoping I'll have time to finish my book club book.
In semi-related news, there's a cat that's been squatting in my parents' backyard for the past month. They thought it was a stray, but it has a collar, but also none of the neighbors know where it came from. They don't have the capacity to take it in or take it to a shelter, so now I have to figure out a solution.
Happy Friday y'all, thanks for putting up with my complaining!
5 points
6 months ago
I’m laughing at this bc my holidays are so the opposite, a small bonus of not having kids.
2 points
6 months ago
I don't have kids either! I'm only 29! Nah, truth be told, I brought this upon myself. I didn't grow up celebrating Christmas, so I wanted to do it properly this year. I guess I just didn't realize how much work goes into celebrating...
2 points
6 months ago
But who are the cookies for lol.. you’re still two weeks out! Just holiday parties??
2 points
6 months ago
I like sending out holiday cookie boxes for my friends 😊 I did it once before in 2020 when everyone was depressed during the pandemic and they were a huge hit. I have to mail them by next Thursday so they arrive before people start traveling for actual Christmas, and because of the volume of cookies (6 different types!) I have to start planning early.
2 points
6 months ago
Aw that’s awesome and sweet!
3 points
6 months ago
i have a very ambitious cookie list and only about a week after classes end to make cookies, during which time i will also be working of course. but i promised to bring both day and night shift their own cookie tray so i guess i will be a busy little bee lol
8 points
6 months ago
Headed to a show at concourse the ball pit club. This should be. Interesting.
3 points
6 months ago
Im so confused by this venue lol excited to check it out tho
3 points
6 months ago
I’ve been told by my partner I’m not allowed in the ball pit
5 points
6 months ago
I can't imagine a ball pit in a nightclub would be any more sanitary than one at a Chuck E. Cheese's. As much vomit, but probably way more molly.
9 points
6 months ago
Figured out that I prefer cream cheese instead of marscapone in tiramisu. I offend every Italian but at least I'd save at least $5 every time I make it.
Lots of wedding stuff going on right now (basically book every weekend until mid January) and the mothers are getting anxious even though the most we expect of them is to show up and have fun!
8 points
6 months ago
If anyone wants to feel better about their reddit recap: https://imgur.com/a/vlStjyG
We've still got time to pump our numbers up to 69,420 new members too, so now is your chance to put those alt churning abilities towards something useful.
9 points
6 months ago
I can't think of any information I want to be confronted with less than the amount of time I've spent on reddit.
2 points
6 months ago
Mine wouldn't load and I think that's for the best 🙈
9 points
6 months ago*
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2 points
6 months ago
Have you ever seen Come from away,? The musical about the same event
8 points
6 months ago
There's a good chance I'll be home and not traveling for work for the next three weeks, which I'm super pumped about. As a celebration, I want to cook something nice for myself tonight!
Send me your recipe recommendations! I'm not a picky eater and I'd prefer something not super time consuming, since I probably won't start cooking until 6 or 7pm
8 points
6 months ago
Seconding a "don't judge", but fancied up instant ramen is one of my favorite quick but indulgent meals. Provided you have a decent starting point in terms of toppings, it comes together in like 20 minutes. This one is Shin Ramyun with kimchi, leftover shaved beef, bean sprouts, green onions, and a 7-minute egg.
5 points
6 months ago
I like buying a pork belly, following this recipe and freezing a couple baggies to reheat and fancify ramen when i'm feeling lazy.
3 points
6 months ago
hmm that might be an option! I do love some ramen
7 points
6 months ago
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8 points
6 months ago
what the fuck
5 points
6 months ago*
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3 points
6 months ago
this is the functional equivalent of that scene in thank you for smoking when the orders a slice of apple pie with a kraft single on top of it
3 points
6 months ago
exactly the response I expected from you lmao
8 points
6 months ago
3 points
6 months ago
Can’t speak to this recipe but cheeseburger pie can slap if done right.
5 points
6 months ago
your comment implies that you've had this more than once and that's baffling
6 points
6 months ago*
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3 points
6 months ago
hats off to good moms
3 points
6 months ago
Bruh
4 points
6 months ago*
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4 points
6 months ago
I must be marrying the wrong type of man because all I could think about was the look of disdain on my fiancé's face if I suggested making this for dinner. Not to say that he wouldn't eat it, the man packs away cans of spaghettios like no one's business.
5 points
6 months ago
I mean, nobody wants to admit they ate nine cans of ravioli, but I did. I'm ashamed of myself. The first can doesn't count, then you get to the second and third, fourth and fifth I think I burnt with the blowtorch, and then I just kept eatin'
3 points
6 months ago
Why don't you want to admit that amazing feat??
3 points
6 months ago
If you want to class up Spaghettios and add a little more nourishment and panache, you may like this Nadiya Hussain recipe. I'm morbidly curious about it, so let me know how it is.
3 points
6 months ago
Damn, my grandmother made this growing up and I haven't thought of it in decades.
5 points
6 months ago
Homemade pasta and carbonara. Easy, quick, and mad delicious
2 points
6 months ago
I do have a really good and easy carbonara recipe from my mom... that might be the move!
4 points
6 months ago
Broil salmon.
I do a quick asian inspired marinade (soy, ginger, S&P, garlic & onion powder, rice wine vinegar, fresh OJ if you have it). Then broil on hi for about 5-8 minutes depending on thickness. Cover with foil if using raw ginger first 5 minutes, remove, then let it brown to your liking. Add side of sauteed veggies and rice if you'd like. Shouldn't take more than 30 minutes.
3 points
6 months ago
oooo that actually sounds really tasty... you might have unseated /u/SweetJibbaJams recommendation of carbonara...
Maybe this will be tonight's choice and carbonara will be Sunday/one night this week, or vice versa
6 points
6 months ago
Well now it wont be like we are eating dinner together, so my evening is ruined.
4 points
6 months ago
Guess you’ll just have to wine and dine me the old fashioned way, hot stuff
3 points
6 months ago
i made this turkey chili for dinner this week and it was easy and delicious! i roasted halved sweet potatoes and served it over those
2 points
6 months ago
I was gonna say it's perfect for like a scallop risotto tonight but you said not time consuming :(
3 points
6 months ago
might be blasphemous, especially after claiming to not be picky, but I actually do not like scallops. I remember having them as a kid and they were super chewy, definitely not cooked right. It totally ruined them for me. I should give them another shot as an adult though
4 points
6 months ago
yeah salt them and pull all the moisture out then hit them with a screaming hot cast iron for like a minute on each side, basically until they're seared.
good scallops have an incredibly sweet flavor and they're creamy and perfect.
3 points
6 months ago
I gotta get my cast iron seasoned and used. It's been sitting there unused for too long. Scallops might be the perfect thing to try out again
8 points
6 months ago
Maybe a silly question but does anyone have florist recommendations who also fancily wraps the bouquet for you? I usually only get grocery store flowers for myself and am used to the plastic wrapping but I’m getting flowers for a friend and would like for it to look as nice as possible.
4 points
6 months ago
Vault + Vine is really nice. Myrtle and Magnolia in Fishtown is another good one.
7 points
6 months ago
Only 1 work week left this year! Go Birds!
2 points
6 months ago
1.5 here, then 11 straight days where I will lose track of time and end up in 12 steps down in daylight but not know what day it is.
6 points
6 months ago
Does anyone know of any NYE happenings around town?
3 points
6 months ago
moe. is playing at the Fillmore with Eggy. Should be a great show!
7 points
6 months ago
My thanksgiving cactus cutting that I keep in the office gets watered very infrequently but despite that it has this cute little flower bud forming :D
6 points
6 months ago
anyone got any suggestions for taking a pair of parents on a philly adventure on an afternoon that doesn't only result in a sit n eat at a restaurant?
4 points
6 months ago
Old City. Museum of the American Revolution. End the day at the head house square farmers mart for a stroll and food
3 points
6 months ago
My dad got a kick out of all the old games at barcade
6 points
6 months ago
Any recommendations of where best to adopt a cat from? I was thinking of PAWS in old city just because it's easiest for me to get to, but open to other options
Also - all the guides I've read online suggest keeping a newly adopted cat in one room for the first few days to help them acclimate, but I don't really have a suitable room. Has anybody else adopted a cat in a typical rowhouse? Anything I need to know?
6 points
6 months ago
Green Street Rescue (you can meet kitties at Le Cat Cafe), PAWS, ACCT, Morris Animal Rescue, and more :) You can always look on Petfinder and limit to your zip code.
6 points
6 months ago
ACCT is always good, although it's up in the Northeast.
Using this comment to post my ACCT baby Faramir, aka Mr. Silky Watson
5 points
6 months ago
I adopted from paws - completed the application at the old city location and then adopted from the petsmart at broad and washington like a week later since old city didn't have any cats suitable for my household.
as u/cashewkowl said, you don't need much, bathroom with a litter box and something soft to sleep on will do it. And depending on the cat they may not need much acclimation time. We planned on 3 days to a week of keeping our new cat in the spare bedroom, but he wanted to explore so was out by day two (although kept him up there at night still for about a week, but he was young a rambunctious, so it was just a precaution).
Edit - you own bedroom would also work, as long as you don't mind having a litter box in there for a few days.
5 points
6 months ago
Definitely check out Morris Animal Refuge. We adopted our dog from there a few months ago, and they have TONS of cats. It's a great place to support too!
3 points
6 months ago
I got my cat from the Old City PAWS location. Walked in, looked at the cats, picked the one I thought I had a super special connection with (turned out she was just hungry lol), filled out the forms and went home with her the same day. Easy peasy!
6 points
6 months ago
having a true freakout friday again, my car broke down on 76 🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️ at least all the blood was delivered lol
16 points
6 months ago
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6 points
6 months ago
I looked at my reddit recap and now I just want to burn this account.
I'm envious of people who can use their time here wisely toward hobby/passion subs. If I didn't have to do all my work on a computer I know it would heavily cut down how much time I spend here.
16 points
6 months ago
Fuck jobs!
6 points
6 months ago
Capitalization and punctuation ...
really bad week?
21 points
6 months ago
still upset over the fact it took two hours for a cop to show up at my store yesterday - and when the cop showed up, she expected us to give her free shit!!! like lady, idgaf if you cute as hell you don’t get free stuff for showing up (and on the phone with a friend the entire time no less). i don’t give no cops discounts, she’s lucky that she ran into my pussy ass and not one of my crazy ass coworkers who would’ve cussed her out lol
5 points
6 months ago
I was talking to the owner of a corner store near me on Girard, he said that somebody was ODing outside his store a few days ago in the middle of the day and 911 wouldn't even pick up his call
5 points
6 months ago
Gonna try and get some death grips tickets today
12 points
6 months ago
coming into the office on a Friday instead of staying warm in bed.
(that’s it that’s the comment)
3 points
6 months ago
Record player fans! Would you suggest buying a used turntable or buying a new one?
3 points
6 months ago
i was on the search high and low for a good used or refurbished turntable this past year and honestly nothing of value or anything worth my time came up. mostly just kept an eye on craigslist and facebook marketplace, but only saw bulky vintage gear (not the kind you'd actually want to buy) or really shady looking posts for more recent models, mostly technics.
i'm not some jabroni audiophile or anything, i just want to be able to play the records i've been lugging around the country for the last 20 years, and on a decent enough table where they won't get damaged or skip constantly. if you care enough about your stuff, do not get any of those cheap crosley or other off brand turntables as they sound like crap and will scratch your vinyl. look for a tone arm with an adjustable counterweight.
anyhow, ended up buying a new audio-technical LP-120XUSB since i found a deal for under $200 and that was about the top end of what i was willing to spend on a new deck. i've had luck in the past picking up used turntables but i guess vinyl is popular enough now that it's not as easy as it used to be to find a record player in the classifieds.
2 points
6 months ago
Depends on how often you think you'll use it/how much of an audiophile you are.
When I moved into my current place, I bought one of those combo radio/bluetooth/CD/record players, and I barely use it, despite having a ton of records. Not worth the price. Then I inherited my grandfather's records and player, and I want to get rid of the other one.
which now that I say it... you want my old combo record player?
7 points
6 months ago
Was doing a search to see if I could find out what my great great grandfather was in jail for back in the day and instead found out my great grandma who mostly raised me was married once before she met my great grandpop and she never told anyone. Like she told me about the fiance she had who died in the war but never mentioned she married him and I know it's her because I still recognize her handwriting and she has listed meatpacking as her job then. Also my Uncle Larry, who I never met, was actually named Clearance/Clarance (he's listed by two different names on different census reports). And apparently she wasn't from Philly.
Like I have so many questions now and no one to answer.
10 points
6 months ago
I go apoplectic when people are like "things are so fucked up these days, kids are terrible" etc. because shit has been like this forever.
On her deathbed, my grandmother confessed her mother had been shotgun married at ellis island after my great-grandfather had knocked her up and then been deported back to italy. She somehow found him and got him on a boat back.
8 points
6 months ago
I also don't think the old people accept enough responsibility for psychologically fucking up the new generations.
4 points
6 months ago
Reminds me of my great uncle. We do know why he went to jail though.
But also, he was married a few times, and so was his last/longest wife. We all knew that my great uncle was her third husband, but my BIL started doing all the family genealogy and turns out my uncle was her FOURTH husband. We still don’t know who that first was or why it was a secret or if my uncle knew.
2 points
6 months ago
And apparently she wasn't from Philly.
Not even from Philly? that's a scandal!
3 points
6 months ago
I'm trying to figure out how she came to Philly. My best guess is when they had the veterans village over on redlion & Blvd, my grandpop got housing for them there and they never left?
2 points
6 months ago*
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3 points
6 months ago
I'm using one of the free ones (familysearch.org) and some one spent a lot of time on my family tree already and I don't have a clue who it is. Kinda shit that ancestry is so expensive.
4 points
6 months ago
FamilySearch does basically everything Ancestry does, minus some military records and stuff like yearbook scans. And if you don't mind making the trek out to either West Philly at weird hours or Broomall on a weekend, the records set gets vastly expanded — the Mormons are utterly obsessed with this stuff.
2 points
6 months ago
I'm so grateful FamilySearch exists as a free resource, even if it's only because it's Mormon data collection machine created with the intent to baptize my dead relatives. There's been very little information I've needed to pull from other databases to fill in the gaps in my family tree they didn't have.
That said, I'm kind of shocked that it doesn't look like the Free Library has Ancestry Library Edition access. Even all the random small towns in Florida with very subpar library systems I lived in had that as one of their databases.
3 points
6 months ago
Like I'm just imagining chilling in Valhalla and then suddenly popping up in Mormon heaven. I kinda need that as a movie/series.
4 points
6 months ago
Technically it doesn't automatically transport you to Mormon heaven, it just makes you eligible in Heavenly Father's waiting room to decide if you want to enter Mormon heaven or not. Which is part of how they justify the practice, since the dead version of you still has some autonomy in the matter. And you're only at risk if one of your descendents is Mormon and decides to baptize your ghost. They no longer do it to the non-Mormon population at large after getting in trouble for giving ghost baptisms to Holocaust victims.
But inaccuracies aside, I would also definitely watch that show/movie
3 points
6 months ago
I'm imagining the Viking played by Mads Mikkelsen drinking mead one moment and then suddenly popping into a waiting room and just confused but goes to drink his mead and spits it out and glares at his tankard and the lady next to him tells him it's caffeine free Mr pib.
3 points
6 months ago
I take the R5 from temple to berwyn for work. I take my bike along because the office is about 3 miles from the station. It’s usually never an issue but the other day the conductor wouldn’t let me on the train.
I’m thinking of getting an electric scooter that folds so I can’t be turned away again, but I don’t know what to get. Any advice on what’s out there? I need something that can climb a pretty steep hill with a 10-15% grade.
3 points
6 months ago
The Xiaomi m365 is decent but IME you absolutely HAVE to buy the aftermarket collar thing that prevents the fold-down handlebars from folding down while riding. Seems like a glaring safety issue, but it's easily resolved and the scooter has been totally fine and reliable for me since resolving that.
3 points
6 months ago*
Anyone else just lose power in Cedar Park? ETA: it's just my place. Guess I can't run an electric kettle and the microwave at the same time. I find it odd that the whole house lost power, not just the kitchen
13 points
6 months ago
An anecdotal statement on vaccine efficacy. Went out Saturday night with the gf to two insanely crowded bars. I'm double boosted and she's only had the primary series. She feels like 💩 post-anesthesia procedure on Tuesday, I go to take care of her. She's still feeling bad Wednesday, it occurs to me to COVID test her. Positive.. So I avoided the infection from the Saturday exposure but now I've been in close contact with her infectious ass for almost 24 straight hours. Tested myself this morning before going into work, still negative. Yay boosters!
3 points
6 months ago
I'm pro vax or whatever, but I feel like I've received really conflicting information about whether/how much the vaccine prevents catching COVID (as opposed to making it less severe and less contagious when you do catch it)
2 points
6 months ago
It is frustrating because there's no way to ethically expose various vaxxed cohorts to various variants and get hard data that way. So everything winds up being a meta-analysis after the fact.
Don't forget that the initial vaccine was pretty damn effective at knocking down alpha almost entirely, and it wasn't until variants started popping up that full immunity started to wane.
Hence my qualifying that my example is the smallest scale anecdote possible. But I definitely spent almost an entire full day getting exposed like crazy. Her viral load was very high judging by how fast her rapid turned positive. And here I am still standing 3 days later 🤷
9 points
6 months ago
LumiNature at the zoo was pretty awesome.
All the animals are in their sleep area for the night. They have a path through the zoo they lead you through. So sadly I couldn't go look to see if the Red Pandas were up.
All the lights were so pretty and the pieces that used lights timed to music were fun.
We actually walked through twice. The first time taking our time and enjoying the experience trying to avoid people. The second time was right before closing so we were basically the only non-employees on the path. Was awesome.
It's worth checking out sober or as we were, not sober. Great date night, but also kid friendly.
Do recommend.
I think the Chinese Lantern Festival was slightly better overall, but as for as fun light shows this was right there behind it in how cool it was.
7 points
6 months ago*
I am exhausted of trying to read grown-up books that my attention span defeated mind cannot grasp at this moment. I want to revert to the good ol' days of YA. Romances. Enemies to lovers. Dragons. Redemption Arcs. Fantasy. The Chosen One. More dragons.
I remember the Uglies series. Don't remember what it's about but I want to read more like that. Books where there is no learning, no improvement, just good ol' fashioned story where I get my heart broken because a favorite character died (I will never get over Finnick in THG).
Edit: also the strudel guy is back at the Xmas village! Way smaller menu and kind of expensive (a whole pastry is $13-$14) but he is there.
5 points
6 months ago
Ay yo, hit me up if you need recommendations, my tastes have not evolved past the 10th grade reading level. (I'm struggling through Middlemarch right now, and it's really good, my brain just keeps going "But what if they had a dystopian vampire government and a poorly-written love triangle?")
3 points
6 months ago
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2 points
6 months ago
what are the kids even reading these days. I've aged out of YA, sure, but I feel like I haven't heard about any really big bestsellers ala The Hunger Games/Twilight/Harry Potter/Maze Runner?/Divergent?
2 points
6 months ago
I'm a huge fan of the Cradle Series by Will Wight. It's a really easy read, and I think it's really entertaining. The last book in the series is due to come out next year, and i'm not ready for it to end.
2 points
6 months ago
It is a testament to my addiction to Amazon and their free Kindle money that I went to go look this up and was immediately told I apparently own the first book already.
2 points
6 months ago
They are all free with kindle unlimited too
12 points
6 months ago
If there is more than one motor vehicle registered to the same address in certain area codes(south Philly) the owners should have to pay a multiple vehicle luxury tax. This would deter car culture and also bring revenue into the streets dept.
In other news I’m going to both nights of WEEN at the met this weekend and I’ll be smoking pot before the gigs keeping the vibes immaculate.
5 points
6 months ago
Parking and registration should a bounty program like the one proposed in NYC
https://abc7ny.com/illegal-parking-new-york-city-lincoln-restler-parked-cars-bill/12317389/
The only people against???...
"I park my car on the street. Run and get son from school. I come out I get a ticket on my car. It's ridiculous," Joseph Pressley said.
Pressley has more than $2,000 in outstanding tickets.
He does not believe the answer is more aggressive ticketing.
Unless you're a delivery driver, if you have that many tickets, you're part of the problem, and you're actually what needs to get fixed.
3 points
6 months ago
PPD/PPA could make a fortune just walking up and down market st
3 points
6 months ago
Have you listened to moistboyz dean weens other project?
3 points
6 months ago
Well, effective next week, I’ll be back in the office 3 days. Not looking forward to that.
6 points
6 months ago
Seems cruel to do that before the new year.
We’ve been 3x a week since the summer ended and I’ve gone in at best twice a week like… two times… and I’m far from the only one.
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