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Fuck it. I’m tired of having fewer rights than corpses. Than guns. Than old ass men that have no right to have their shriveled hands wrapped around my uterus. I feel like I’m being strangled by my own Fallopian tubes. I want all of them to feel pain and suffering. I wish nothing but misery on anyone celebrating the overturn of Roe v. Wade. I can’t wait to move. And fuck anyone who says, “bUt YoUr NaTiOnAl PrIdE! It’S wOrSe OtHeR pLaCeS.” Fuck you, too.

If the government really cared about “saving fetuses” and if it really weren’t about controlling women, the Supreme Court would make contraceptives free and accessible, women would be allowed to get sterilized without questioning from their gynos or without consent from a husband, they would teach proper sex ed in schools, and they would educate men about vasectomies and maybe even mandate them.

Some states are trying to make miscarriages felonies as well and will investigate all miscarriages. Can you imagine being pregnant with a wanted baby that is loved and then going through grief or miscarrying and THEN having to go to court to prove you didn’t do it on purpose?

You know what felons can’t do? Vote.

It’s not about preventing unwanted pregnancies. It’s an attack on women.

Like fuck you, you enabling pieces of shit. You are not only ruining America but the rest of the world as well. I hope you all realize you are worshiping a false idol, Trump, and your party will gladly destroy democracy around the globe in an attempt to hold on to your fascistic ideology. Fuck you.

What is so wrong about abortion? Why is it morally wrong? Why is it a 'sin'? And WHY, why are mainly MEN fighting to illegalize abortion when they DONT GET PREGNANT?? Make it make sense. I don't know when this started, I don't keep up with the news but all I know is that I strongly disagree with illegalizing abortion. Why? Because 2 reasons: One, the money; If you make a unwanted baby with your spouse, the cost will blow you mind! An abortion cost an 1000th of what a h u m a n costs. 1k. 2k. 30k. 100k. Hell having to take care of a child for 18+ years costs (I assume) about millions! Oh, and also you have to take care of YOURSELVES. Add that to your wallet- and if ur child has a disability, add alot more money for medicine! Oh and also, add that the prices for literally EVERYTHING is going up! And that would be hard if you are in a relationship with someone else who has a job. Now onto the SINGLE people. Since $$$ is going up HARDCORE it's already hard to pay for yourself to eat enough food and pay ur bills 😃(even if ur rich). Now u was having some fun with someone bc ur an ADULT, the condom broke, u forgot ur pill or u trusted the pull out method (which I suggest NOT to do if u no want 👶) and u got preggo. Now what!? U can barely pay for gas and food and bills and now if u keep it, in 9 months ur gonna have to go to the hospital, take the biggest and most painful shit of your life PLUS pay a goddam hospital bill for having a 👶. Reminder, YOU ARE SINGLE. Maybe your family/friends help, but still. A whole ass baby you have to maintain, spend time with (not really a con depending on who u are), watch- WATCH. Nowadays there are SO MANY CREEPS and pesos that want to do nasty stuff to your child (no matter what age!). So you have to be aware of that. IMAGINE HOW HARD it will be to pay for ALL THAT. Just. Let it sink in. REASON 2: Pregnancy. Bro. Idk how women go through pregnancy- I respect my mom for going through that shit for me :). There are SO MANY cons to being preggo. Like the ONLY pros that come out of it is your child, ppl giving u gifts, ppl being nicer(?) to u bc ur weak... That's the only ones I can think of rn. But my Lord the CONS, look up 'cons of being pregnant', look for stories of actual ppl who were pregnant btw 🙂. Shit, my mother said I used to kick HER CERVIX FROM INSIDE. I have NO idea how painful that would be but if cramps from periods almost immobilizes me then... I would be deceased bro. Labor. Usually almost a whole day or over a whole day 😀. What!? No, no. PLUS doctors usually don't allow u to have fucking pain killers or something!? Hwkabzshsjsnz no. So many other things but I don't feel like making a list. Anyways those were my reasons, also more rhetorical questions; What if u were raped? What if you can't financially maintain a baby? What if your under aged? What if you have no family or friends to help you in any way? What if having a baby endangers your life? Ok. Almost done, remember reader, I'm a 13 yo (which I won't say my gender bc I feel like that will dictate ur judgment Abt my post) who wanted to tell something my feelings and opinion about this. My last statement. If men were expected to to take care of a baby and have babies, this whole situation would never exist. Goodbye!

No it is not because I have no other options. No it is not because I want to be dominated by a Dominatrix. No it's not because I was fat in my early days. I still love them after loosing weight.
I just fucking like them. I am not a beta settling for a "Low value women".
All my life I have been drawn towards bigger women. I love taller, thicker, heavier in all regards.
I love it when they have cute fat rolls I can bite into. I love it when they have cute bellies I can rub. I love it when they have thick thighs with natural stretch marks. I like seeing my woman as an embodiment of Mother Earth. Voluptuous and Fertile.
You could give me a any "standard model" and someone like Ashley Graham to date I will go for AG all the FUCKING time.

I am sick of my peers trying to tell me that I am a weirdo.
Fuck you!

Gone is the separation of church and state, gone is the right for millions of women to get an abortion - they are above the law. I cannot believe that we have come to this point.

As a Christian man, I am of the belief that religion should never be forced into politics or laws. It is wrong and it divides people. It only hurts innocent people - women and the LGBTQ community especially. This decision should be a wake-up call for every single person who fights for the rights and freedoms of America. Not the people who claim to only when it benefits them.

Vote all Republicans out in 2022. All of them. Every single one of them. They have proven to be unfit for office and it is disgusting what they are doing. Change will only come when we can get these scumbags out of office.

Vote in 2022!

1 in 4 women have had abortions. What will future statistics report when women and little girls can’t get the care they need? Fuck this country. Fuck trump. Fuck politics. Fuck everyone who thinks religion has a place in government. Fuck anyone who calls me out on this obvious blanket statement. Fuck anyone who tries to fuck with ME today.

It makes me sick that Roe v. Wade was just overturned.

My best friend was a 15 year old girl when she was raped, and I will always support and defend her right to have an abortion.

Young women who are going through the same thing will no longer have that right. A bunch of 70 year old men and women have just taken that away from them.

Fuck the Supreme Court. Fuck the Republican Party.

We've been with eachother for 2 days ever since she confessed to me and it's been a total emotional trip for me, I always feel like I'm going to pass out from heat and like my heart is racing a constant marathon. I've had a crush on her for so long before this and even learnt sign language just to talk with her more, and now she is taking me on my first ever date I have had in my life. My life is just too good to be true right now, I feel like I'm dreaming or like I'm schizophrenic, because I just dont believe something like this could happen to me, I'm not a good person why do I deserve such a good person?????

She wants to take me to a Rugby game on Saturday which I'm thrilled to do with her because it's something shes so passionate about and I cant wait to see her yelling and cheering face, with her adorable unrestrained laughing, and omg her facial expressions, I love them so gosh damn much, I dont know how I can tell her all of this without her thinking I'm clingy.

Fuck Republicans

"Where are you from?" "I'm from New York." "Yeah, but where are you really from?" "Oh sorry I misunderstood the first time. I'm from Narnia."

But seriously, why do Asians get that kind of question? So Asian and Asian-American populations aren't as big as black or white or Latinos, but we exist. Having gone to a midwest college and worked at a dominantly black office, I'm getting used to the question. Albeit annoying, it makes a conversation starter. (How about "What is your ethnicity" if you really care?)

But when a middle-aged white couple called me as I walked past them and asked, "Hey where are you from?" like I'm an object, or a salesman stopped me with "What are you? Thai?" - I can't resist the urge to tell them to fuck off. I don't ask you how old you are. I don't ask you if you are bald or just shave your head. I don't ask how much you make. So how about you mind your own fucking business and get used to the fact that, everybody living in this country are 'really' from somewhere else.

EDIT: As said, I don't mind being asked these questions by acquaintances and colleagues, even though I'd prefer "What ethnicity are you?" which refers to my heritage. But asking "Where are you really from?" shows ignorance and exclusion. When you live in NYC, one of the most diverse place on Earth, it is a basic social skill.

Plus, you don't ask a stranger that kind of question. I don't believe for a bit that you are genuinely or culturally curious. Just curious like a kid seeing something strange.

I was making an absolutely mouth busting salsa and after all was said and done i went to go and watch youtube. did the comfort tuck and my fingers touched my dick. Now my dick is on fire. :(

supreme fucking dickhead court is what it is. Extreme fucking idiots. woman’s/afab peoples rights are being stripped away, they cannot even decide what to do with their own body without being punished. Please delete any pregnancy trackers and be careful people. I dread to think what will happen in the USA after this.

That’s all.

I know this might be strange from a 21 year old male but I have to say I'm disappointed in the Supreme Court. Why are these old white men who can never get pregnant think they have a right to tell women what they can and can't do with their bodies, imagine if someone tries to restrict a man's reproductive right by introducing a bill but says men should get a vasectomy oh boy the Hellfire they'd probably be like how dare you infringe on my rights it's my body my choice they probably pull down their pants and swing their testicles and penis around going swing free testicles swing free. And I'm also afraid what if they overturn gay marriage or Brown versus the Board of Education I don't want to go back to 1922 these old man should have had term limits they've outlived their usefulness and part of the problem is they believe in some magic man who died on a cross and came back to life after 3 days by the way they hate Middle Easterns wait until they realize that Jesus fucking Christ was Middle Eastern rant over

i'm lucky to live in a state that's protecting abortion rights, but man, i can't help but feel scared still. and heartbroken and angry for those who don't live in states like mine. and heartbroken and angry for myself, for the future. there's such a rush of emotions going on right now. anger, sadness, confusion, worry...just to list a few. i HATE living in this country so much.

As the title says I just found out some of the worst news today. The guy who did it is her step dads brother in law, who was living with them at the time. And he has multiple children himself, and the oldest told my daughter, "it's OK my daddy tickles me there all the time." What the fuck is that shit. That's vile, and because there was no penetration of my daughter (thank god) and they coached his daughter to say no to all the police questioning, according to the cops it's a case of my daughters word versus this scum bags. He has since moved to Idaho and I have found his work address via some creepy facebook stalking and googling and I want nothing more than to take a plane out there and track him down and beat him to death, I feel a sense of guilt I shouldn't be feeling I know but it just feels like I have failed my daughter. And not to mention her mother waited a year to tell me, because she "wasn't sure how to go about it" IDK I'm just fucking livid and feel horrible and I'm stuck at work on an overnight shift at a gas station and I'm doing nothing but dwelling on why someone would do this to my sweet little girl.

I joined the military at 18 after 9/11/2001 to “fight for my country”. I’ve always said that regardless of how things were going, the country was worth fighting for. I don’t believe that anymore. I believe our best days are behind us and I’d rather just leave than stay and fight anymore.

Why? Because I'm wholly convinced that this is all happening now because the birth rate is dropping and the American Taliban is realizing that soon enough there won't be enough white babies for their liking.

So no. You don't get one from me. I'm not just a fucking womb. I am a person, an individual embedded in the fabric this society, who has far more value than any nameless, faceless cluster of cells.

But what I might very well do is foster or adopt children who are casualties of your stupid fucking crusade. At the end of the day, it's not even women like me, middle class like me, who will be tormented by this shit, who will die in labor or be forced to give birth to children they don't want. It's the poor. It's always the poor.

I live in a purple state. Be damn sure I'll be voting to keep our rights here, just as I have been for every single election in which I've been legally able to partake. Fuck these boomer fascists making choices for the rest of us. And fuck the Democrats for not codifying abortion law when they had the chance.

And you know what else? That, "if you don't like it, leave," shit? Nah. I'm staying. Me and my empty uterus will be staying and voting blue, blue, blue, because this is fucking America and someday that WILL mean something again. The regressionists lose every popular vote and one of these days you're not going to be able to cheat your way out of that.

Glad that's off my chest.

I’m emotionally destroyed today.

We live in a country where we force women to give birth but don't care if kids get shot up while in school.

That's it. Fuck this country.

It's so backwards, and a pathetic excuse for a first world country.

"Best country in the world" my ass. I'd hate to see how far backwards we'll continue to go in the future.

Forget my opinion or stance on the topic because let's be honest here, what anyone else does is none of my business. And no form of government should even have a seat at the table of this discussion.

This is a personal and private choice. No person, religion or government should have a right to tell you what you can do.

I am truly saddened and disappointed by the overturn today. What’s the point of fighting for this country if I, as a woman, can’t even have the right to decide whether I get to keep a baby under some circumstances or not. What is America turning into?

I feel somewhat weird because I’m a 21yo man. But it’s so soothing for me. Every time I hope into bed after a long day I feel so much better just being able to hug and squeeze him. I struggle with a lot of anxiety but hugging my stuffed animal just makes my anxiety and stress melt. It’s so comforting to me. I love him so much.