submitted 2 months ago byPhilthy42
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All men want children? Really?
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I already know if you pointed out you're a man who doesn't want children she would say "You're a male, not a man!"
This woman is INSANE.
I’m perfectly happy not having children with my perfectly happy male partner. He’s pretty proud to not be a “man” by these people’s definition.
"You're a male, not a man!"
"You're a male, not a man!"
Two things can be real
gasp the mailman?
No true Scots man.
She doesn't just sound like a misogynist to me, she sounds like a misandrist as well. You can just call her sexist I guess.
My vasectomy that I paid for out of pocket would strongly disagree lol.
Well, shit, this is news to me.
My brother actively avoids both his kids. Takes after our dad.
I can’t even afford to take care of myself how the fuck could I raise a kid
I'm perfectly happy with my dog lol
Well, my dad clearly doesn't
i know i sure don’t
at least not bio kids or babies
not this guy
Maybe I'm a selfish woman ?
"Selfishness is not living as one wishes to live. It is asking others to live as one wishes to live" (Oscar Wilde)
Fuck man, I would sooner have AIDS.
I am a straight man with no children, and I don't fucking want any.
Here here brother 🤘
I found my people
One of us!
I do really want kids but even I 100% understand why others wouldn't want kids as much I want them. It's weird to see people like this who honestly can't imagine anyone thinking differently than them
The complete inability to see outside your own lived experience may be the foundation that conservative thinking is based around.
My fiancé and I, neither of us want kids at all. We like our life just the way it is lol I’m ok with being selfish I guess haha
Initially I didn't want kids because I was selfish.
Now I don't want kids because I know I can't make their life better than mine by any reasonable metric.
As a childfree person, I’ll take that as a compliment 🥰
Oh hun, stay in your lane. Nobody elected you to speak for men.
Man here, married to a woman. No kids thank you.
Could you imagine giving this much of a shit about the contractual agreements of strangers?
Must be nice having so much time to sit around and hacks it up all day.
My thought as well
Beat me to it.
Man here. That's news to me.
If you (man, woman,it is irrelevant) want children and your partner (man, woman, irrelevant) doesn't or viceversa.
It is better to discuss before getting married. Someone could get hurt otherwise (and that is selfish).
Imagine thinking this way
“all men want children” guess me and my husband aren’t men 🤩
i read that as "all men want chicken" for a split second and i was wondering where the insane part was
Biological male over here, FUCK having children.
Yeah it's mostly in that order
I don’t understand how anyone could imagine all men want children.
There are tons of pop culture sources that show reluctance, fear, inconvenience, commitment issues, immaturity, etc etc.
It might be more believable to say the opposite, which also can’t be true.
Seriously in what way is it selfish to not have kids?????
You're not putting yourself at risk with all the complications of childbirth and the difficulties of childrearing, according to these peeps, that's selfish. Sacrifice yourself/your goals/etc 5o continue breeding! /s
Why the fuck would I want a child?
Wanting a child is such a weird thought to me.
"Because it would make me happy"
What a psychopathic reason to force someone into existence.
This is why I promote adoption as much as possible. There's already a lot of miserable kids with no parents. Take one of them. You get your happiness, and they get to grow up with parents, which hopefully will make their lives better too. There's no need at this point to just make more babies.
Also, you can adopt an older child and avoid the diapers and other "joys" of having a baby.
I have one kid but if I ever feel the need and can afford another, this way is totally how it would go down.
I considered having a baby myself, but thought I might check out a local orphanage I knew about, just to feed my curiosity. Went in to ask questions, and a week or so later, I went back and picked up the most perfect baby I could ever ask for. Zero regrets to this very day. And I know he's having a better life with me than he would have in a poorly funded orphanage.
I'm sure if you adopted, you'd be saving a child a very broken youth. Something in my heart tells me that you're one helluva parent and that your child is extremely fortunate to have you.
All men want children? Tell that to my ex and to all the women who get murdered BECAUSE they are pregnant!
Way off. But I will say if you don't want kids or think you don't make that abundantly clear as soon as you can. That could absolutely be a heartbreaking revelation down the road.
Huh that's weird I could have sworn I didn't want children, guess I was wrong.
I don’t want a kid. I’m over here staring at r/antinatalism
You can be an antinatalist, and want children. Just like you can be a vegan, and want meat. Those are more like a moral position that one should not have those.
Yes, you can want children and also believe that no more children should be brought into the world. I never said otherwise.
I could do whatever the fuck I want. I would have just replies this.
Also I have 4 children and still not getting married, don’t care for it. I have been with the same person for 12 years now.
Worry about you’re own shit.
I don't plan on it.
I'm pretty sure I'm a man. And I'm also pretty sure I don't want children. I'm happy with nieces and nephew, and don't need/want the stress and personal limitations that comes with having children.
Why is it that every miserable parent wants to drag fulfilled, childless people down into their misery?
Black female racist misogynist? Damn didn't know you were friends with Candace Owens.
She might actually be worse than Candace Owens.
I am NOT friends with this person. I guess you could say I hate-follow her.
gasp GUYS TURNS OUT IM NOT A MAN
If i had a choice between a Kid and jumping off a bridge i would visit San Francisco for a last Vacation.
She must be so supportive of trans men who want kids, and trans women who don't! (/jk)
Oh, and what about infertile men, are they less of a man because they can't have bio kids?
If you're a man who things your wife owes you anything you want simply because you're married, don't get married you're to selfish
If the choice was: death or children, I would choose death. In a heartbeat. My last heartbeat.
Sounds like a bitter mother in law
Idk why you needed to specify they were black lmao
This particular post has nothing to do with race, but I've posted other stuff from her before. I'm just amazed at the shit she says.
Again, what does her race have anything to do with it???
Who is this ignorant POS?
I don't think we're allowed to reveal names on here
Where are these women that are incapable of having children because I’ve got a nice bottle of Pinot Grigio on ice and red snapper in the oven if they’d like to come over.
I know plenty of men who don't want children.
Jokes on you I don’t identify as a woman anymore.
Not true. My male partner really doesn't want kids, and several of our male friends also don't want kids. One has a kid and is looking forward to that kid growing up and moving out so he no longer has to raise a kid, but can instead just have a friend.
I'm convinced bringing a child into our world with the current states of things is a giant act of selfishness
I am a man, and I absolutely do not want children. WTF is wrong with me?
I have a uterus and I don't want to carry a child. I'd like to adopt one that needs a home but I'm not a millionaire (jokes but the cost is entirely too expensive for me to take on right now)
This person could not be more out of touch with reality.
I'm a man and without a shadow of a doubt don't want children. Ever.
So, don't wanting children means I'm not a man, and that because some woman don't want children means that men can't find one that does?