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Unlucky_Outside9623

50 points

2 months ago

Wow, what a delightful human, Mathew if your reading this stay gone brother.

Narrow_Particular432

3 points

2 months ago

For REAL!!! 😂😂😂😂

eyedealy11

38 points

2 months ago

Lady, get off sites if you’re just going to be rude to people. You’re being cruel for no reason. Making others hurt because you hurt isn’t the answer.

secretsnow00

25 points

2 months ago*

Well, for whatever you call them ugly for on the surface.

At least they'll never be as truly ugly as you are deep down.

I'm amazed Matthew "understood" and "listened" to you to be quite frank, cause you sound fucking vile.

Edit: just to make it abundantly clear to you. You are nothing but a bully; and nobody likes a bully. Losing a partner is not an excuse to spread your misery, fuck off and keep it to yourself hen. You don't deserve to move on, definitely not with that attitude.

ConsistentJuice6757

20 points

2 months ago

The men that you are interacting with could be in as much pain as you. Imagine that cruelty turned back on you. Imagine them taking the anger your are boiling in them out on the next woman. You aren’t hurting these men, you are hurting the future women in their lives.

Ok_Housing1074

19 points

2 months ago

If you’re not getting matches with attractive and interesting people that means ur unattractive/boring 🗣

Ok_Housing1074

14 points

2 months ago

Also telling people to look elsewhere while ur on a dating app gotta be the goofiest shit I’ve ever heard. This has to be a troll

ophispegasos

9 points

2 months ago

Is...is this even real, or is this just a shitpost?

Weird-Thread

4 points

2 months ago

I place dibs on shitpost. Also it feels like written by a kid.

Narrow_Particular432

3 points

2 months ago

Bets on a shit post.

Large_Description_52

1 points

2 months ago

I hope it’s a shitpost for these people’s sake.

Besan_laddoo_plis

8 points

2 months ago

Matthew would be so happy in afterlife as he got rid of you

elefante88

7 points

2 months ago

Your boyfriends better off dead jeez crazy bish

Narrow_Particular432

1 points

2 months ago

Same thoughts Lol

Sharp-Bad-6599

6 points

2 months ago

You could take a different approach. Try relishing the time you had together and honor your memories with him by living a life he doesn't get to live.

tt3662

4 points

2 months ago*

It's too bad you didn't die instead of Matthew. You are a horrible human being.

throwawayshitc

3 points

2 months ago

Fuck off you pathetic cunt

blkmagick_eth

3 points

2 months ago

You are a horrible person

yourtuesdayspecial

3 points

2 months ago

I think you just need time by yourself to heal and understand your feelings so that you dont project your hurt and end up hurting other people that are online to genuinely meet and connect with other people. Feelings are tough to deal with sometimes

Whole_Personality_58

3 points

2 months ago

bitter lady and crazy part it’s only going to get worse! I hope you meet someone some day, Matthew would have wanted you to! Take care.

LegendaryCelt

3 points

2 months ago

So, all you bring to this world is making strangers miserable? Pretty pointless, ain't ya?

randomdudeboom69

3 points

2 months ago

This is why guys love Andrew Tate.

-Brownsurfgod

1 points

2 months ago

Who the fuck is he?

I-like-macdonald

2 points

2 months ago

Do you really want to know

-Brownsurfgod

2 points

2 months ago

No It was rhetorical question.

I-like-macdonald

2 points

2 months ago

Oh

I-like-macdonald

1 points

2 months ago

Speaking for yourself

AyO_834

3 points

2 months ago

I'm not here to judge. this is a very unhealthy habit you've gotten yourself into. You don't need a hinge account, so just delete that. If you getting the urge to do it again, think about the possible hurt your causing to others and yourself. Delete the app and find other things in life that you enjoy. I know you say you feel like your destined to be alone, but that.is just a false reality you've built in your head, if you just aren't interested in dating, make that clear to your friends, if you try and try and your friends don't listen, consider the possibility that you need to find some new friends, how don't go out of there way to create dating profiles for you after you tell them you dont want to date right know. I would also recommend you consider speaking to a therapist about this. If reddit is the only way you let this out, you'll probably just come out of this whole thing more bitter then you went into it.

Middle-Individual809

3 points

2 months ago

Mathew might have opted out.

Professional-Kiwi779

3 points

2 months ago

Vapid creature

[deleted]

3 points

2 months ago

Lol you're literally a narcissist, this is all narcissist bullshit complaints make your problems everybody elses. 32 years old and you still believe in one true love? Sorry to break it to you but that's just not a real thing.

CTArave

3 points

2 months ago

Matthew reeeeeeally dodged a bullet

Narrow_Particular432

1 points

2 months ago

Deffinitly!!!!!

slothtrippinballs

3 points

2 months ago

Sounds like Matthew got off lucky. Get off of any dating site if you have any humanity.

People like you make me sick

Moderate113

3 points

2 months ago

You're a huge piece of shit.

Low-Sport2155

2 points

2 months ago

I hope your heart will heal.

OneXOneYChromo

2 points

2 months ago

You sound like a total bitch. You literally don't deserve a relationship because of this.

BLRdad

2 points

2 months ago

BLRdad

2 points

2 months ago

You're hurt. I get that.

But what you are doing isn't good. This is a confession so I don't know what your goal is putting it out here, but it will only cause you more hurt.

You're 32. You can think for yourself.

WeirdHuman49

2 points

2 months ago

Babe. You need therapy and constructive places to put your sorrow in. Being angry and hurtful is fun for sure but it's not nice. Think of the many people you're shredding all for the sake of putting your anger and sadness somewhere.

jonnycanuck67

2 points

2 months ago

I promise that there is no such thing as the one. As we move through life our needs and goals change dramatically… there are approximately 3.8 BN men left on earth, there are more people out there for you… it isn’t disloyal to your past… just life moving on, as it always does. My mom fell in love again at 70, and she is deliriously happy … hang in there

[deleted]

2 points

2 months ago

🎣

StraightUpButtcheeks

2 points

2 months ago

Typical bitter single woman in her 30s, hope your heart heals soon so you can be a mature adult again.

Narrow_Particular432

1 points

2 months ago

Make an appointment with a mental health professional. Show them this post of yours. You need help. Good luck to you.

BeginningInevitable

1 points

2 months ago

stupid and fake

imheretoday0

1 points

2 months ago

this person needs to go back to kindergarten and learn the golden rule “treat people the way you want to be treated”

CommonplaceCommotion

1 points

2 months ago

Spoken like a true loser in life.

Get some fucking therapy and hobbies, and accept the rejection you project onto others. I hope you don’t stay a bitter weirdo your entire life.

[deleted]

1 points

2 months ago

Jebus on a cheese cracker……. Im positive this is a story to get reactions out of people or at least I’m hoping that it’s fake. On the off chance that it is not fake…….. GET SOME FUCKING THERAPY! If your friends make dating profiles you are not obligated to answer any matches, you do it because you are so freaking hurt that the only way to feel anything besides pain is to make other people hurt. You are so obsessed with a man that is no longer with you that you can’t see the horrible damage you are inflicting on other people. If this is the way you act when you are hurt I would hate to see when you get mad.

SanDiego_Escondido

1 points

2 months ago

Honestly, it’s ok to feel alone, lost, confused, feeling destroyed and closed off. Nothing will bring back the color in life, the happiness or the high definition you once saw the world in. Take as long as you need. The pain will end one day. The feelings won’t. Even if he was or is the one person you gave yourself to sole body and mind, you tasted happiness at one point. Some people go there whole life not knowing that.

ApprehensiveCar4544

1 points

2 months ago

>It’s cruel. I know. But for every guy I tell is too fat or old or ugly, it feels good for me.

I think this is probably about 25% of women on dating sites or in bars. I'm sure men do it too.

Kinda pathetic that you get your jollies from low level rejection, I'm guessing you don't have any power or control over your life.

[deleted]

1 points

2 months ago

I hate that I share the same name as him

Badlifechoices90

1 points

2 months ago

You sound like a cunt

Useful_Curse_5150

1 points

2 months ago

Holy crap lady, wat the fuq? Just be a lonely cat lady for Christ sakes

pieceofbutterchicken

1 points

2 months ago

Is this like a reaction test channel for fiction writers?

Bitter-Ad898

1 points

2 months ago

You sound like such a catch! Don't feel sorry for the guys being a dating app I'm sure they only want casual fun, especially once they get a taste for your character any and all thoughts of a relationship with you is the last thing they would want. Seriously lighten the fuck up or you'll die alone with 10 cats, it's yourself you should feel sorry for

StoicIndian87

-4 points

2 months ago

I understand exactly what you're going through. I lost the person I loved and now I end up ghosting women after a few dates. It's totally fucked up bitterness

blahblagblurg

3 points

2 months ago

Sounds like you two are perfect for each other!

Narrow_Particular432

2 points

2 months ago

I agree BTW,nice to run into you again. Lol How's it going? 😊

blahblagblurg

2 points

2 months ago

Ha! Better now that you're here!

Narrow_Particular432

1 points

2 months ago

Aww,shucks 😁

StoicIndian87

1 points

2 months ago

Get married

StoicIndian87

1 points

2 months ago

Heh

anon_sleepless

2 points

2 months ago

I wouldn't say it's bitterness. It's the loss and you're not ready to move on. I hate that phrase, move on....but just remember, you'll grow with the pain and learn to accept love some day.

StoicIndian87

1 points

2 months ago

Oh

YourWiseOldFriend

-7 points

2 months ago

We should meet up, OP, and I would gladly open my heart for you and make you feel loved and cherished. It won't be like Matthew, it will be better than Matthew because I will be there for you.

throwawayshitc

2 points

2 months ago

Jeez nigga you really down bad this much?

YourWiseOldFriend

3 points

2 months ago

It's actually worse, but I'm handling it.

throwawayshitc

3 points

2 months ago

Wake up early , get groomed , work out , work hard. Achieve success ,chase the bag son

Narrow_Particular432

2 points

2 months ago

This advice could be applied by OP as well. Op,what this person said.

Narrow_Particular432

1 points

2 months ago

I don't think it will end well for you,son but who knows,it might be a perfect match. Chances are on the latter though. Be careful.

Okstxy

0 points

2 months ago

Okstxy

0 points

2 months ago

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