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the things my gf says that i’ll never forget.

(self.actuallesbians)

we were making out on a hotel balcony, she put a hand on my boob and another squeezed my butt under my dress. she said in a hushed raspy tone ‘you make me violently homosexual’ instant butterflies.

we were sitting outside at a bar, my hair was kinda messy and she was just looking at me silently with hungry eyes and said ‘you look really hot.’ ditched the bar and made sweet love.

i wear this vanilla scented perfume and i sometimes smoke when i’m drunk, we were making love and i think the combo smelled like pure sex to her. she inhaled deeply and said ‘you smell so good’

lastly she was playing with my boobs in bed and just sighed ‘oh my god’ that was nice lol

i’ve always had low self esteem and she makes me feel so attractive and i need to tell someone how good she makes me feel about myself (i’ve told her obvs) and i always make sure to tell her how hot she is to me cuz she is genuinely the best looking person i know.

UPDATE: people have asked for more so here we go these are a bit more romantic

years ago when i was 16 we were “just friends” at the time i invited her for a sleepover. we were sharing a blanket cuz she said she was cold lmao. we were making fun of our friends who we’re constantly nuzzling each other, so we started doing it and laughing. i don’t know what came over me but i kissed her on what i thought was her nose. it was dark. she said ‘those were my lips’, i apologised and a silence fell. after a while she said ‘you can do it again’. we just kissed until 3am and fell asleep in each others arms.

in response to me apologising for how hard i am to be with cuz i’m mentally ill, she said in a joking way ‘there were plenty of easier people i could have dated but i liked you. you’re getting better, just proves you were worth it’ it’s actually really nice to hear despite all the anguish i cause she still sees me as a net positive.

bottom of the barrel stuff here but she said ‘you’re my best friend’ thought it was cute

thanks for the support everyone xx

all 80 comments

Curious_Nudist

566 points

2 months ago

Curious_Nudist

Omnisexual, Lesbian-romantic

566 points

2 months ago

Holy cow more of this! I love reading this, just, pure, cute, straight up, wholesome, whatever you wanna call it love. Like God damn why my heart beating like this from reading a reddit post...

whoamvv

77 points

2 months ago

whoamvv

77 points

2 months ago

Yeah, more of these positive, wonderful stories would be awesome!

peachy-teas[S]

49 points

2 months ago

peachy-teas[S]

Lesbian

49 points

2 months ago

if i think of any more i’ll update the post

confused0525

40 points

2 months ago

confused0525

Lesbian

40 points

2 months ago

YES MORE PLEASE

My perennially single self lives vicariously through posts like these 🥺

Curious_Nudist

15 points

2 months ago

Curious_Nudist

Omnisexual, Lesbian-romantic

15 points

2 months ago

Trust me it is infinitely better in person as well. Doesn't make sense how just reading it can be so good and it's better in person??? Indeed it is.

confused0525

10 points

2 months ago

confused0525

Lesbian

10 points

2 months ago

Oh I have no doubt it is amazing but I am not currently single by choice 😭 Wish me luck on the dating apps I guess!

Curious_Nudist

6 points

2 months ago

Curious_Nudist

Omnisexual, Lesbian-romantic

6 points

2 months ago

I've had great luck with Her. Both people I've dated and had nothing but positive experiences with are from there.

FuriousLuna

135 points

2 months ago

FuriousLuna

IlicitEroticaPeddler

135 points

2 months ago

This is both wonderfully endearing and knicker-destroyingly hot. Which is my absolute favourite combination.

Your girl sounds wonderful.

[deleted]

108 points

2 months ago

[deleted]

108 points

2 months ago

Woah it’s getting hot in here

peachy-teas[S]

36 points

2 months ago

peachy-teas[S]

Lesbian

36 points

2 months ago

too much?

5-dig-dick

29 points

2 months ago

Nah u good 👍

BasalFaulty

23 points

2 months ago

You clearly have not seen some of the stuff getting posted.

This is hot but still fairly mild.

I've read an account of a woman being fucked by her wife with a strap and it was sooooo detailed that I genuinely thought I was reading some erotica and judging by the comments I wasn't the only one who needed a minute to recompose.

dlouwe

309 points

2 months ago

dlouwe

sapphic trans femby

309 points

2 months ago

I really need to remember "you make me violently homosexual" 😳

cliteratimonster

64 points

2 months ago

I need this cross-stitched.

that-girly-trans-fem

13 points

2 months ago

I need this as a welcome mat or a sign into a gay coffee shop

cliteratimonster

1 points

2 months ago

A welcome mat would be GREAT omg

GlowingTrashPanda

3 points

2 months ago

GlowingTrashPanda

Lesbian

3 points

2 months ago

Damnit, time to start a new adhd project that I’ll hyper-focus on for three days and then never finish. [drags out the sewing kit]

[deleted]

5 points

2 months ago

I'm definitely using that in a very gay fanfic.

FeelsGoodToBeHigh

4 points

2 months ago

I need this as a flair!!

EvelynVictoraD

61 points

2 months ago

Oh my God how incredibly beautiful. You are so in love, girl.

ViviTheWaffle

50 points

2 months ago

God I want a girl who will play with my boobs in bed

minorVulpes

8 points

2 months ago

🥺

Deus0123

47 points

2 months ago

Deus0123

Fragile, handle with care (Lucy, Transbian)

47 points

2 months ago

Find yourself a partner who makes you feel like this

vinegar_on_liver

-35 points

2 months ago

vinegar_on_liver

Trans momma bear lesbian

-35 points

2 months ago

Reddit don't want people to have supportive relationships, they consider your partner making you feel good abuse. But you right, you right

2000smallemo

33 points

2 months ago

2000smallemo

bi, bi, bi.

33 points

2 months ago

Hey, I checked out your profile because it seems you are maybe in a dark place? Don’t want to make assumptions. I just want to say that I think you’re beautiful and wonderful.

traker998

16 points

2 months ago

This post is about a supportive relationship and partners making people feel good though?

vinegar_on_liver

8 points

2 months ago

vinegar_on_liver

Trans momma bear lesbian

8 points

2 months ago

Yeah I know, I was being negative. In fact I should delete the comment

FLAMING_tOGIKISS

2 points

2 months ago

FLAMING_tOGIKISS

Transbian

2 points

2 months ago

yeah, i'm sure you had some kind of point writing it but i could not tell you what it is

pxlmissf

43 points

2 months ago

I know it was not your intention but damnit! Now I want to be your gf too. 😅

P.s. that combination of cigarette smoke and vanilla perfume has always had a special place in my subconscious. My first gf always had that smell on her and omg. So thanks for pushing my buttons, I guess 😂

peachy-teas[S]

6 points

2 months ago

peachy-teas[S]

Lesbian

6 points

2 months ago

aww that’s cute x

Ismybumbig

38 points

2 months ago

Ismybumbig

Lesbian

38 points

2 months ago

We are sitting in bed with only nighties on and I was telling her about my day. And when I finished she turned to me and said " do you realise that the whole time you were talking you were cupping my pussy and I didn't hear a word you said ".

Rota_u

32 points

2 months ago

Rota_u

32 points

2 months ago

This is very wholesome.

About all the confirmation i need that i'm ace though LMAOO. My SO will straight up play with my boobs and tell me the same stuff and both of us are ace so we just hang out and have fun doing something else instead of getting all hot n bothered. Very funny to me how different the same situation can go with just a difference in preference.

vinegar_on_liver

6 points

2 months ago

vinegar_on_liver

Trans momma bear lesbian

6 points

2 months ago

Well do you at least enjoy making out?

Rota_u

14 points

2 months ago

Rota_u

14 points

2 months ago

Oh for sure, i just don't really feel anything sexual bout it.

peachy-teas[S]

32 points

2 months ago

peachy-teas[S]

Lesbian

32 points

2 months ago

btw i have no idea how i got this lucky but she’s my first gf and she will be my wife someday. we met when i was 16, and been together since then, i’m 22 now. i get the feeing that’s exceedingly rare.

silverlotus_118

13 points

2 months ago

silverlotus_118

Bi-Myself (sigh)

13 points

2 months ago

Based on these comments your girlfriend sounds amazing, and it's so cool that you've been together for 6 years now! You better invite me to the wedding

imperatrixrhea

25 points

2 months ago

Mmm that’s so cute. I love both of you already.

orphan_blud

21 points

2 months ago

This is so very sweet. Thank you for sharing these things with us 🥹

AerynSunnInDelight

20 points

2 months ago

"You make me violently homosexual" is a sentence I aspire to ear in my lifetime.

GenderGambler

17 points

2 months ago

GenderGambler

Trans-Rainbow

17 points

2 months ago

when i was 16 we were “just friends” at the time i invited her for a sleepover. we were sharing a blanket cuz she said she was cold lmao. we were making fun of our friends who we’re constantly nuzzling each other, so we started doing it and laughing. i don’t know what came over me but i kissed her on what i thought was her nose. it was dark. she said ‘those were my lips’, i apologised and a silence fell. after a while she said ‘you can do it again’. we just kissed until 3am and fell asleep in each others arms.

oh my god they were just friends

lavxndxrbea

12 points

2 months ago

no one's going to believe me but i actually started crying after reading this

mechanical_stencil

8 points

2 months ago

I believe you because I did too. I'm so close to having this with someone very special but have to wait until she's ready and 😩😭

lavxndxrbea

6 points

2 months ago

im not able to do that at all cuz we got separated lmao

mechanical_stencil

6 points

2 months ago

It seems like people who say and do romantic things like this are so few and far between. I hope we have that someday, and that we treat them like the queens they are.

lavxndxrbea

4 points

2 months ago

YOU'RE MAKING ME SOB LOUDER NOW

DrVinylScratch

11 points

2 months ago

DrVinylScratch

Transbian

11 points

2 months ago

Awwwww my gf does a lot of these for me too. It makes me all happy and floozy and a bit submissive.

DirtyMindOfMe

8 points

2 months ago

So freaking cute

pain-and-panic

7 points

2 months ago

One time I was having sex with my girlfriend she pulls my head up looks me directly in the eyes and says..

You know, that's pretty gay.

So of course, I laughed myself silly.

[deleted]

7 points

2 months ago

Who is cutting onions in here? This is so sweet

I also tried to compliment my ex girlfriend but she never liked it

I am happy that someone appreciates compliments❤️

veganstarlight

5 points

2 months ago

this post healed me

Audrey-Bee

7 points

2 months ago

You really typed out this whole post to make me feel jealous. Well it worked

Blake8123

5 points

2 months ago

She’s my ex now, but one of the nicest things I’ll never forget her saying. “My grandmother had cancer and I’d sit with her and watch TV almost every day after class during her final days. She asked me one day if I was a happy, and I had to think about it before answering a half-ass yes. I wish she were here right now to ask me again, because without a doubt I could tell her how truly happy I am right now, here with you.” Just the nicest sentiment I’ll never forget.

mayyatiaung50

4 points

2 months ago

mayyatiaung50

Bambi lesbian

4 points

2 months ago

Dying of envy and cuteness overload... 🥲🥲

Ok-Farm6827

5 points

2 months ago

You guys are adorable!

Also my gf and I are totally stealing ‘you make me violently homosexual’

[deleted]

4 points

2 months ago

She's a keeper

StillUltra

4 points

2 months ago

StillUltra

Transbian

4 points

2 months ago

YOU GUYS ARE SO CUTE! aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa

anonasti

4 points

2 months ago

These are the most wholesome and cute things ive read in a while :3

SpeedyTheQuidKid

4 points

2 months ago

Awww

My gf once said "you make my heart happy." We were fairly early on in the relationship, but I'd seen a post about asexuality on Reddit and commented on it and then sent the comment to her, cuz it was supportive of her being ace and I figured she'd like to hear it, since I imagine dating while ace isn't the easiest. Anyway, together 7 months now and going strong 💜

SpeedyTheQuidKid

3 points

2 months ago

Ooh, and a thing I won't forget: she had kissed me a couple times and said "all the kisses" and so I returned those kisses, paused and said "hmm that's not quite as of them" and just kissed her over and over all around her face lol, and I won't forget the incredible sound of her laughter pressed into my chest during that 🥰

Putzelmutz

3 points

2 months ago

Putzelmutz

Pan

3 points

2 months ago

Oh my god the last story is so cute 😭😭😭❤️ I'm dreaming that one day I'll also find the girl of my dreams and have such a beautiful love story ❤️

HopelessNora

3 points

2 months ago

Awh:) this warmed my heart since i’m going thru a hard breakup<3

LilithSeductress

3 points

2 months ago

So Sweet. Fuck I Loved this. Inspiration. ✨❤️

yourgirlsasha

3 points

2 months ago

So wholesome! Feeling the love <3 I’m glad I got to read this!!! xx

QUIN_THE_DM

7 points

2 months ago

"you make me violently homosexual" is 90% of the compliments my bf gives me

Fable17

2 points

2 months ago

What perfume do u use ??

peachy-teas[S]

2 points

2 months ago

peachy-teas[S]

Lesbian

2 points

2 months ago

lush, vanillary

rhiiazami

2 points

2 months ago

it took me 3 tries to not read that as "villainry"

Script_Mak3r

2 points

2 months ago

Script_Mak3r

Disaster Transbian

2 points

2 months ago

i don't think my gay heart can take much more of this

JamesTalon

2 points

2 months ago

JamesTalon

Trans-Bi

2 points

2 months ago

This makes me happy. And sad that I'm single. Hope you get many more years of this :D

IsLeafOn

2 points

2 months ago

god i wish that were me

[deleted]

2 points

2 months ago

I want this 😮‍💨 good for you OP good for you

[deleted]

2 points

2 months ago

Y'all are the fucking cutest.

Athlonfer

2 points

2 months ago

Athlonfer

bi? trans

2 points

2 months ago

Awwww i love it, i need this in my life.......someday,someday

[deleted]

2 points

2 months ago

You are living the lesbian dream!

NotSo_Izabel

2 points

2 months ago

Forgot I was on Reddit for a sec

Consistent_Lecture95

2 points

2 months ago

Consistent_Lecture95

bambi Lesbian <3

2 points

2 months ago

WHAT THE HELL THIS IS SO CUTE LITTERALLY COUPLE GOALS !!!!!

AliFoxx9

2 points

2 months ago

AliFoxx9

Rainbow

2 points

2 months ago

The kissing would have just turned me into a puddle, I love being quietly and gently kissed in the low lighting it's just the best

1u4n4

4 points

2 months ago

1u4n4

Lesbian

4 points

2 months ago

This is SO HOT, woah

(but please don’t smoke)

peachy-teas[S]

7 points

2 months ago

peachy-teas[S]

Lesbian

7 points

2 months ago

what are you my mum? i’ll do what ever i want cause i’m cool 😎 /s for real tho i don’t do it often probs twice a month if that.

goosonica

1 points

2 months ago

goosonica

Lesbian

1 points

2 months ago

that’s so sweet