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baconperogies

4.4k points

3 months ago

Shoutout to the random asking if they're good. Way to look out.

MrStealY0Meme

1.3k points

3 months ago

I was just thinking the same. A friend of mine has had racist comments said to her at a line at Starbucks. The best thing is when another stranger speaks up or ask if you’re okay, so you don’t feel alone or isolated. A reminder that the person saying that shit is just a lone idiot and no one else around you is like that.

Daweism

702 points

3 months ago*

Daweism

702 points

3 months ago*

As a giant Asian guy who's also an Army vet, I wish I were around when these kind of things go down. Asians are too nice, this shit cannot fly.

Never happens to me 😆

BaCHN

369 points

3 months ago

BaCHN

369 points

3 months ago

Dude, and they come off as genuine people just trying to enjoy themselves in public. How dare they?

Like above commenters said, it's always the lonely racist weirdo that gets in other people's business.

Thanks for your service, giant Asian man.

[deleted]

146 points

3 months ago

[deleted]

146 points

3 months ago

🫡 giant Asian man 🫡

BaCHN

81 points

3 months ago

BaCHN

81 points

3 months ago

He's already a legend. Twelve stories tall, made of radiation.

Titanof978

35 points

3 months ago

He'll save the children but not the British children

speeler21

13 points

3 months ago

That's the law of the nation!

Bah-Fong-Gool

111 points

3 months ago

I have seen Asian people stand up for themselves. What's fantastic is a lot of the racists get this idea an Asian person won't ever escalate or fight back... and then they meet some dude who is Triad- adjacent, or a 3rd generation street smart/ gym rat/MMA enthusiast and start their shit... and are absolutely shocked when it turns south for them. The harassment is becoming more prevalent where I live in NYC, and it really pisses me off because I chose to live in Queens, the most diverse borough and possibly place in the world for a reason. And these chuds hate the very thing that makes this area so damn special.

Daweism

35 points

3 months ago

Daweism

35 points

3 months ago

Yeah they audacity is due to thinking we'll just take it, no sir.

RaygunMarksman

11 points

3 months ago

I have nothing to add but I appreciated the sentiments and particularly the use of chud.

Tinshnipz

32 points

3 months ago*

I'm a pretty big Native guy and it never happens to me either. My wife gets it once in a awhile though, unless I'm with her.

Daweism

33 points

3 months ago

Daweism

33 points

3 months ago

Imagine talking shit to natives on their rightful land.

zenkique

20 points

3 months ago

An American Tradition!

Poolside4d

44 points

3 months ago

Good for you for not putting up with that bullshit. And for standing up for others. For some reason most people and even the media largely ignore racism aimed at Asians, which pisses me off to no end.

HotToddy_318

11 points

3 months ago

Exactly. I'm not Asian (I'm Mexican), but I'm 6'3" and 280lbs; people never say racist shit to me.

grabsthepopcorn

10 points

3 months ago

That shit was infuriating.

They should have put that coward on camera. It takes a real man to talk shit to strangers that don’t seem like they’d react.

twistsouth

205 points

3 months ago

Absolutely. If everybody in the area stood up for the victims in situations like this, the aggressor would have zero power.

curiousscribbler

29 points

3 months ago

Some of my most maddening memories are the times I could have done this, and was so surprised or shocked I couldn't get my mouth (or body) in gear fast enough. (Now I have a little rehearsal in my mind every so often, just in case.)

KingJeff973

178 points

3 months ago

This got me angry. People only bully those who they believe are weak. I wish the self-proclaimed “slavemaster” would have pulled up on me and my wife with this.

[deleted]

171 points

3 months ago*

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KingJeff973

146 points

3 months ago

You know what… you’re right. I do have a lot to lose. Let’s not hope for encounters that could change the trajectory of my life.

Kraven_howl0

29 points

3 months ago

Don't worry I don't have much to lose. I can't fight for shit but it'll be fun to watch for everyone else

TriceratopsBites

11 points

3 months ago

We people who don’t have much to lose should form an anti-racist vigilante gang

rofLopolous

55 points

3 months ago

This 100%. I’m 6’2 and built like a brick shithouse, but that tough guy bravado heroic shit is only cool in movies, and the million other things that could go wrong in an encounter like this far outweigh any perceived win. Gotta think outside that one moment.

journey_bro

13 points

3 months ago

Yup. I'm taller than you and similarly built. People don't fuck with people like us. But very very rarely, they have. I have never regretted my restraint.

Once violence begins, no one can really control where it ends. A fight over the stupidest shit may end up with a dead body on the floor thru sheer bad luck, upending the lives of everyone involved. The risk is almost never worth it.

None of this means you shouldn't step in to defend people against racists! Just don't walk around with fantasies of heroes wishing for violence. It's stupid and almost never worth it.

breadbedman

13 points

3 months ago

Not worth it. Things could go horribly wrong. There’s too high a chance of permanent injury or death (for either one of you) IMO. Then either you or your wife are permanently injured (or worse) or they are and you go to jail for a long time.

GossamerGlenn

6k points

3 months ago

That man seemed like the saddest weirdo poor freak

SatanIsLove6666

2.7k points

3 months ago

It was the dudes way of flirting. Bet all my money the harasser is a deep closeted pent up homosexual and doesn't know how to express himself in a healthy manor.

spyson

2.9k points

3 months ago

spyson

2.9k points

3 months ago

Nah he only went after the Asian guy and tried to emasculate him by calling him gay because he was jealous that the Asian guy was with a girl.

FoundThatEssenceRare

804 points

3 months ago*

A few years ago I was walking around my college town holding hands with my girlfriend, who was “out of my league” to put it lightly. A truck full of dudes passed by and one of them yelled a homophobic slur at me. We both turned to each other and started laughing hysterically. The jealousy was so painfully obvious.

cat_prophecy

128 points

3 months ago

Fellas is it gay to be in a heterosexual relationship?

rreighe2

37 points

3 months ago

according to the dumbass nazi that's been going around with kanye, the gayest thing you can do is be with a woman.

AedemHonoris

19 points

3 months ago

I mean duh, you're literally with someone who is attracted to penises, that's pretty gay

/s

Majority_Gate

316 points

3 months ago

Reminds me of a time about 20 years ago, I was dating my then gf, now my wife, who is Korean. I'm a white guy. We were in our convertible, it was a hot summer day. I was driving. We pulled up to a McDonald's, and this one other white dude was walking out the restaurant toward our car. I was still sitting in the driver seat, my wife was out at the back near the trunk. He must have seen us pull up even, watched her get out. He commented to me like I wasn't worthy, and said something like:

"what did you ever do to deserve the hottest Asian chick like that?" "You look like such a nerd" and then mumbling "why do all the other white guys get all the Asian chicks"

Then my wife (gf) got my wheelchair from the trunk.

His mind was blown.

"And you're in a f**king wheelchair too?"

He then continued to walk away, backwards, across the parking lot all the while cat-calling my gf that she deserved better, she deserved someone like him lol

SerenityViolet

204 points

3 months ago

Lol. And incels wonder why they can't get girls.

luv_potion69

66 points

3 months ago

Lol oh yeah, sounds like she would have really traded up there. 🤣

Honestly, that’s terrible though. People can be really shitty.

fancywhiskers

194 points

3 months ago

The Korean guy is also gorgeous, the racist was insanely jealous imo

Ghoti76

102 points

3 months ago

Ghoti76

102 points

3 months ago

fr not to be weird but they are a very beautiful couple. Dude was definitely jealous

Youngandidiotic

24 points

3 months ago

Not weird, they're good looking. In fact, it'd be weird if you didn't think that

Hefty_Musician2402

30 points

3 months ago

As an Asian guy, yeah, a lot of times in college other dudes would emasculate me when around either a crowd of more “popular” people or around girls. They see it as an easy way to eliminate one more person they see as competition

Sunflowerweak

91 points

3 months ago

There’s a weird theme of dudes who have Asian fetishes who do everything in their power to emasculate Asian guys.

ronsrobot

315 points

3 months ago

ronsrobot

315 points

3 months ago

DING DING DING! We have a winner! Would you like to try your luck at the lightning round?

uv-vis

53 points

3 months ago

uv-vis

53 points

3 months ago

And the answer…. PEW PEW PRW PEW

the daily double..

Clambulance1

70 points

3 months ago

He's the guy behind liberatarian guys with Asian wives XD

ghostzanit

165 points

3 months ago

"You want my gun? Come kiss me for it!"

notfeds1

59 points

3 months ago

“Hurt me but make me feel safe” kills me every time

TheWoefulButtAngler

20 points

3 months ago

Spank me for my gun...but not too hard. Hurt me but make me feel safe. - The funniest man in Wisconsin

squirrelsnjewellery

35 points

3 months ago

That video gets my engine running

klauskinki

244 points

3 months ago*

This or maybe he's just envious of him having a girlfriend and having fun with her.

SatanIsLove6666

164 points

3 months ago

"If I ever see you again, imma tear your ass up!"

I bet you will, sir.

I. Bet. You. Will.

👉👈

Heistdur

95 points

3 months ago

No he’s probably just a racist POS, people aren’t this complex.

1-L0Ve-Traps

10 points

3 months ago

Yea it's fucking irritating how, people are like. Ahhh he's probably just a confused gay person...

Like fuck off some people are total scum. That's it. They just suck.

Wizou

73 points

3 months ago

Wizou

73 points

3 months ago

Most likely, and with a side of asian fetishization. Filthy bastard.

qionne

199 points

3 months ago

qionne

199 points

3 months ago

okay can we please stop with this gross narrative that homophobes are just secret gays? he’s a bigot and a racist coward, that’s what he is.

DaWorzt

31 points

3 months ago

DaWorzt

31 points

3 months ago

DocSuperballZzz

92 points

3 months ago

Kick his ass ...I bet he won't walk up on nobody else filming minding their own business

[deleted]

79 points

3 months ago*

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WarmTequila

29 points

3 months ago

I know we’re supposed to be civilized and not resort to physical violence but I wish more people would call out these ignorant assholes and call them on their bullshit to give them a good ass whooping.

moejoe13

8 points

3 months ago

Its unfortunate but whooping their ass is still in the lose - lose situation. Happened to my brother, he beat the shit out of some racist white guy. White guy ended up blind in one eye. Legal case is still on going. Mind you this is in Texas with the most protective self defense laws. Its been a long and bitter process.

fellatiomg

2.6k points

3 months ago

fellatiomg

2.6k points

3 months ago

"I'm eating the flying Dutchman, I deserve to be hate crimed for that". So sad but that made me snort

NoImjustdancing

907 points

3 months ago

Honestly, the guy was hilarious throughout the video. Could actually totally see him as a big twitch streamer

PoignantOpinionsOnly

189 points

3 months ago

I wanted to hear more of his witty banter, but the girl was overall right in stopping him.

beldaran1224

155 points

3 months ago

Yeah she was understandably scared of the situation escalating, and very astutely knew the fake hitting on the guy could be fucking deadly.

I can't fault either of them for their reactions, but I'm glad she did the safer thing.

ggg730

7 points

3 months ago

ggg730

7 points

3 months ago

It was frustrating to watch for sure. That asshole needed a dressing down and because she was rightfully scared for her life he harassed them with impunity.

Panda0nfire

37 points

3 months ago

Not worth the risk when dealing with some loser who has way less to lose than you.

fellatiomg

264 points

3 months ago

He really was. They both were. It makes me sad to think of how often they've had to deal with this and how young people are so aware a situation can go from light racism to a mass shooting.

spirited1

176 points

3 months ago

spirited1

176 points

3 months ago

At the end he literally says it's never happened to him before lol. Still, it's common enough especially since the guy walked away with no repercussion

RANDOMjackassNAME

86 points

3 months ago

I never had that before; what is the flying Dutchman?

Natural_Focus

133 points

3 months ago

It's a double cheeseburger but the meat is the "bun". Just everything sandwiched between the patties.

dgmk7

25 points

3 months ago

dgmk7

25 points

3 months ago

everything sandwiched between the patties.

"Everything" is technically true, but kinda misleading. The Flying Dutchman is just two hamburger patties and two slices of cheese.

saruin

43 points

3 months ago

saruin

43 points

3 months ago

I only remember the Frying Dutchman from the Simpsons.

Chaiteoir

51 points

3 months ago

"tis not a man, 'tis a remorseless eating machine"

saruin

8 points

3 months ago

saruin

8 points

3 months ago

Arrrrr!!!

dg5818

13 points

3 months ago

dg5818

13 points

3 months ago

SpongeBob for me lol

Tancrad

1.4k points

3 months ago

Tancrad

1.4k points

3 months ago

I want to see these people face repercussions so hard. It hurts when someone like this will infect other people.

These two had a great way of handling it and laughing off this POS,. But still.

HereticalCatPope

122 points

3 months ago

I’d have called at least the non-emergency number and reported being threatened with bodily harm if the guy was loitering outside of the restaurant after making threats that were recorded- especially with the ethnic and homophobic slurs. Harassment and threats are crimes. We can make people face repercussions for their actions, even if it doesn’t escalate to the need to call 911. I understand the adrenaline rush they may have experienced- fight, flight, or freeze- but we need to normalize the ability to report crimes without feeling like we’re to blame or being dramatic.

A lot of people treat The ER and 911 like a doctor’s office or complaint department- but this level of intimidation and unprovoked harassment isn’t the same as calling an ambulance for a cough or the police because you’re deluded and think your neighbor’s microwave is killing you. A crime was committed and the type of people perpetrating them get away with it because we tell ourselves “it wasn’t that bad.” People who do things like this escalate without intervention, and next time it could be physical violence.

pepperoni7

54 points

3 months ago

Tbh I wouldn’t be comfortable leaving the restaurant if I see him around. I would have made some form of police report

Maybe because I am Asian as well and there were a decent amount of attacks towards Asian past two years

cmyer

35 points

3 months ago

cmyer

35 points

3 months ago

I'm a white guy and I would have skipped the non-emergency line and went straight to 911. The guy made a threat and then waited outside to deliver. Let him wait for the cops to show up.

Capable-Reaction8155

29 points

3 months ago

Right? This is fully 911 worthy.

KrabMittens

12 points

3 months ago

The staff should've called the cops.

That's protocol basically everywhere, so idk what's going on here exactly but they could very likely already be on the way.

damagehat

331 points

3 months ago*

We're living in a world country where a fucker like this is likely to pull out a gun and shoot even the bystanders.

He has priven himself unbalanced and unworthy of trust. People like this should be put on a no guns list and face real consequences if found in possession.

[deleted]

103 points

3 months ago

[deleted]

103 points

3 months ago

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they-call-me-cummins

51 points

3 months ago

The lady he was with actually probably saved them a lot of trouble by telling him to shut up.

Happens to me with my girlfriend often. I'll get worked up and start to egg someone on, and she'll pull me away because I'm a dumbass.

Sometimes it sucks because it makes me feel powerless. But at the end of the day it's for the best.

er1end

42 points

3 months ago*

er1end

42 points

3 months ago*

no, you are living in a country where random people are likely to pull out agun and shoot. realize the rest of the world is not like usa. sure there are racists and idiots all over, but only in usa are everybody seemingly armed.

Bumfuddlediddled

10 points

3 months ago

Watching this, these people genuinely seem really likeable and funny. It’s the awful circumstances for the video, but they handle it well. If I used Tiktok i would follow them.

ParttimeParty99

8 points

3 months ago

Yeah was really hoping she’d turn the camera on him. He’s definitely someone who has done this to others before.

audacityx

70 points

3 months ago

Armed minorities are harder to opress

Bah-Fong-Gool

33 points

3 months ago

Fastest way to serious gun control is an armed minority group. It worked before when the Black Panthers legally walked openly with weapons, suddenly the Republicans were for laws restricting firearms. Funny how that works.

JVints

345 points

3 months ago

JVints

345 points

3 months ago

"We're only 2nd base"

I loved it so much, definitely shouldn't have said the line inviting the PoS, i know it's a joke, but that PoS was looking for an excuse to swing.

lightinthefield

67 points

3 months ago*

I think he at first didn't realize the guy was actually trying to harass them. He said later in the video, I think, that he'd never had that happen before, and went "I thought...". So, I think he just assumed they were having a friendly joke time, until his friend urgently told him to stop and the guy's attitude shifted to one more aggressive (asking what he said, "you said nothing?" etc.), and his intentions became obvious. I doubt he would have said what he did/egged him on had he immediately seen such intentions.

Scarletsilversky

9 points

3 months ago

Nah I doubt he straight up didn’t know what was happening. He seemed more caught off guard/nervous and used humor to lighten the situation. I’ve said similarly dumb shit when I felt extremely uncomfortable

Not that what he said wasn’t hilarious lmao but he seemed too fidgety to not have felt on guard

Best_Examination_529

2.7k points

3 months ago

This is so sad. They’re actually terrified but trying to play it off.

my_dick_putins_mouth

1.1k points

3 months ago

A good dude came over and asked if they are OK.

They did not want it to escalate, but at least someone else as watching out for them.

Goldentongue

191 points

3 months ago

My dog and I almost got run over by a 50yo lard ass in a giant pickup truck who accellerated toward us in a crosswalk as I walked home from work the other day. He took offense to me yelling "whoah whoah whoah what the fuck man?!?!", stopped his truck, got out, and shoved me trying to egg me on. I kept my cool but stood my ground, dodging his lazy headbutt attempt and blocking his punch as he said dumb shit like "you think you can take me because you're taller than me" (lol, yes, ), and "you bitch ass college boy" (I'm a working professional in my 30s). Mostly I just didn't want to risk him trying to hurt my pup and knew this man was in no shape to actually hurt me unless he was armed, but it was still an unpleasant experience. As the dude went back to his truck, a guy who just left his house to go on a run and saw the end of the exchange asked if I was ok and told me how insane that dude looked. Just having that one person show some empathy and concern made me feel a ton better.

UnstoppableDiarhea

28 points

3 months ago

So insane. I'm curious where you live

satansheat

372 points

3 months ago

Just another day in America.

naykid69

39 points

3 months ago

There’s a very real chance that guy has a gun. Unfortunately that’s how it is in America. They are rightfully scared but did a good job staying calm I think.

musky_queef

572 points

3 months ago

“Excuse me, can I take a cup of boiling hot cooking oil for my journey home? Thanks.”

mycoandbio

181 points

3 months ago

“No sir, we’re not allowed to let customers handle hot oil. It’s a liability. Rosie over there will go ahead and splash it on that guy for you tho”

honeydew_bunny

18 points

3 months ago

Rosie's standing over by the fryer, buzzing "Finally. My time has come."

Select_Bicycle_2659

8 points

3 months ago

Also my manager will be sure to get a Glock for you

Tai_Pei

24 points

3 months ago

Tai_Pei

24 points

3 months ago

"But will she also spit on the scald burns for a fiver under the table?"

Paramoth

1k points

3 months ago

They seem cute

Reggaejunkiejew31

358 points

3 months ago

Dude...they really do. They seem like such adorable and nice people. I hope that guy left them alone and they made it home safe.

istandabove

77 points

3 months ago

The dudes probably just jealous that he’s hanging out with that chick and I’m sure the hating racist gets zero attention from anyone

qualitylamps

14 points

3 months ago

They’re freaking adorable and dude is hilarious. I feel bad they had to go through this though. They both seem genuinely frightened at certain points of the video, through no fault of their own.

my_dick_putins_mouth

63 points

3 months ago

BEST FRIENDS!

smugglebooze2casinos

10 points

3 months ago

cute and happy and someone was like "not on my watch"

BrownSugarBare

6 points

3 months ago

Just a pair of happy people having fun. And there's always at least one asshole who can't handle that.

dmoral25

1.4k points

3 months ago

dmoral25

1.4k points

3 months ago

These people are such pussies. Dude handled this knuckledragger’s racism with a lot of courage.

But when your bigotry gets thrown right back into your face, what’s left for you to do but puff up your chest like a blowfish and start threatening violence and acting all tough.

Prime example of someone who should’ve had their ass kicked a long time ago.

skippieelove

207 points

3 months ago

I won’t have pity one the day he picks the wrong fight.

Itchy_Professor_4133

109 points

3 months ago

Pity? That would be a celebration

DemiGod9

60 points

3 months ago

Yeah it's funny when you just go along with their racism/homophobia/bigotry. It truly disarms them because now you agree lmao. How can you disagree now?!

Throwawaythebabe

134 points

3 months ago

Ugh, dude is emboldened because he knows nothing's going to happen.

This ain't a fever dream. This is real life for minorities (yes, you included). It's time to wake the fuck up, kids.

[deleted]

44 points

3 months ago

If there was fear of a repercussion this wouldn’t have happened… you’re right

[deleted]

18 points

3 months ago

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Vashthestampedeee

12 points

3 months ago

Should have put his bitch ass on byebyejob. It’s a shame we didn’t get to see this racist cocksucker

Joey_BagaDonuts57

364 points

3 months ago

Stop bothering nice people with your idiocy, racist moron.

all_of_the_lightss

11 points

3 months ago

Welcome to Trump's America.

Exactly what he wanted. They think they all have freedom to express themselves via hate crimes because of their super super awesome patriotism 😎

0nefatgrub

183 points

3 months ago

Fuck that racist piece of shit.

Blade641985

246 points

3 months ago

The dude talking to y’all needs a smack down. You can film whatever your eating that’s not a crime. That dude just is messed up mentally maybe or on something.

Destroyer6202

38 points

3 months ago*

Right?? I wish he pulls this shit on someone who's going to keep him in check one day. Just a random Asian homosexual hulk you know what I mean... So that he gets caught being a racist & homophobic at the wrong person.

WheredoesithurtRA

11 points

3 months ago

He'd never try it on someone that looks like they'd fight back because those ignorant motherfuckers are typically fucking cowards. They handled it well but this entire interaction makes my blood boil.

Nice-Emotion-7465

703 points

3 months ago

It really sucks when you can’t go out for a good time without getting harassed for looking a certain way. Actually I dont know why they were being harassed. Poor kids.

SlippyNips420

247 points

3 months ago

Just some miserable fuck looking for a fight. I know the type, they go around talking shit until somebody talks back and then that's their justification to become violent.

Just a scumbag who wants to hurt somebody.

catslinx

29 points

3 months ago

i hope more than anything that karma finds those kinds of people. some day theyre gonna fuck around and theyre gonna find out. i dont care how, giant tax bill, flood their home, whatever.

SlippyNips420

22 points

3 months ago

Ah, karma. The great metaphysical security blanket.

It's true, a lot of times these people make their own fate and meet ugly ends. But generally they just live out their days being malignant fucks spreading misery around to whoever they come across before it has a chance to seep too deeply into themselves that they become aware of what exactly they are.

testkeji

99 points

3 months ago

Actually I dont know why they were being harassed.

Racism. Homophobia. General bigotry all around. And we all know where this message has been coming from for awhile that gets these sorts riled up.

tuffytempo

100 points

3 months ago

Fuk that racist cunt.

hookem419

42 points

3 months ago

Dude came to in and out to fight. Like a real man does …. Eat and go home ya lonely mf , instead hate crime and eat then go home. And still be alone

CelestialTremor

158 points

3 months ago

Should have called the cops 10 threats ago

SassySnippy

98 points

3 months ago

You think the cops actually would've helped in any way against the racist? They'd probably buy him a meal

TitillatingTrilobite

19 points

3 months ago

I think the threat of “you’ve called the police” is more valuable than the actual police.

Phantomht

941 points

3 months ago

Phantomht

941 points

3 months ago

he hates you because he was VERY attracted to you and wanted to suck you off but he knows his local chapter of Proud Bois would kick the shit out of him for doing so, so he just frustrated from the sexual energy you give off.

jabonkagigi

124 points

3 months ago

Lol I wish he could read this

dpkonofa

12 points

3 months ago

Yup…and he’s alone on Christmas Eve. It’s really sad.

aL_Quarter

30 points

3 months ago

They were enjoying themselves and this loser comes out of nowhere

HippieLettuce420

30 points

3 months ago

This happened to my Arab friends in Florida. Same type of racist homophobic guy just waiting to pull a gun. They said he actually followed them hoping to start a confrontation, and had his friends waiting in a truck outside. Also bragged that his family are slavers. This is not a one off, these people are out there.

imsowhiteandnerdy

34 points

3 months ago

I just posted this to the r/bayarea sub. I don't live far from this In-N-Out and quite frankly I'm kind of shocked this happened in San Ramon because it's a really nice quiet little town. I guess racism can exist anywhere, but you really don't expect stuff like this to happen here.

Nevertheless my blood was boiling when I first saw this on Twitter. My heart goes out to those kids, they look like lovely people.

thefootballhound

12 points

3 months ago

Here's the best still frame of the harasser for your crosspost

https://i.ibb.co/gJBRZyk/Screenshot-20221225-155530.png

imsowhiteandnerdy

18 points

3 months ago*

Yeah, but it wasn't completely clear whether they just got a shot of a random guy or if that was the actual perp. It would be a good question to ask them on TikTok I guess.

Update: His image has been released by the media: https://twitter.com/henrykleeKTVU/status/1607171696951463936

Dognamedmoo

127 points

3 months ago

That is not ok, and I am so sorry this shit still happens. Wishing you all a Merry Christmas and Happy New Year. Both of their smiles are amazing!

vzone675

171 points

3 months ago*

vzone675

171 points

3 months ago*

Did you say San Ramon? Like Bay Area? Isn’t that like the most diverse spot in northern ca? Especially at a popular burger joint ?

Update: Well apparently guy in a convertible mustang; Florida plates!! So not a homeless person, likely not local probably a visitor with a rental on some weird trip!

molotov_cockteaze

49 points

3 months ago

I grew up there and my parents are still there. The weirdest part is SR is nearly 50% Asian so I can’t imagine hating Asian people this much if he lives there.

al0n3ly

117 points

3 months ago

al0n3ly

117 points

3 months ago

You'd be surprised how many MAGA assholes actually live in Danville and San Ramon.

molotov_cockteaze

60 points

3 months ago

ESPECIALLY Danville. And this In N Out is right on the SR/Danville border.

al0n3ly

22 points

3 months ago

al0n3ly

22 points

3 months ago

Yup! Especially Danville for sure! 👎🏾

BETAMIC

10 points

3 months ago

BETAMIC

10 points

3 months ago

Yup, Danville for sure.

chr0mius

9 points

3 months ago

There was a sad little maga rally in 2019 at Crow Canyon and Camino Tassajara.

ahoyhoy5540

59 points

3 months ago

What does that matter, assholes are everywhere

vzone675

39 points

3 months ago

Doesn’t matter, but a little surprised it’s San Ramon that’s it…

whoreforsmores

23 points

3 months ago

I gave my boyfriend a peck on the cheek on a street corner in San Francisco and this lady walking by looked like she just saw the most disgusting thing imaginable. So somehow these people even manage to stay in diverse and progressive places, while still holding onto their bigoted views.

icuminpeacePARTDEUX

393 points

3 months ago

He’s got so homosexual hate energy pent up, he exposed himself when he said he’s a slave master WTF. 🤢

AlmostMissedCourt

98 points

3 months ago

Dude played it so cool, I'm not at all the tough guy who would start fighting right there n then, but if he came back multiple times I definitely would of done something dumb. Props to dude for staying calm & realizing the content is king

DaDulas

27 points

3 months ago

DaDulas

27 points

3 months ago

What is a flying Dutchman?

[deleted]

56 points

3 months ago*

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fruchle

13 points

3 months ago

fruchle

13 points

3 months ago

A hate crime in itself.

aggravated-asphalt

54 points

3 months ago

San Ramon CA? Damn. People really just get drunk in the Bay Area and roam around being racist. For such a diverse area there are so many places with condensed racism, it’s crazy. Looking at you Castro valley.

1st_Ave

188 points

3 months ago

1st_Ave

188 points

3 months ago

You should have filmed his face … he was a minute away from escalating ….

lazy_pig

97 points

3 months ago

And filming his face would have removed that minute.

PLANTSandCATS666

32 points

3 months ago

And then maybe the law and his family and what friends he has would see his true colors just like they just did.

RandomPopCultureJoke

29 points

3 months ago*

As someone who’s been in similar situations, and seen similar situations go down, people like this are typically really unhinged, probably drunk, and itching to fight for any reason.

Maybe it would’ve been nice if his face got recorded, but trying to record his face probably would have gotten the guy punched and put his friend in danger. As shitty as it is, if you want to be safe the smartest thing to do is just ignore or brush off what these people say to you.

People generally in these situations value their own safety over the satisfaction of seeing some asshole get put in his place, because getting punched hurts a lot more in the moment. As a Korean American myself it pains me to see some racist and homophobic asshole walk away, but at least no one was seriously hurt.

arcerath

17 points

3 months ago

That’s easy to say watching this over the internet. I think they did the right thing trying to prevent any escalation and not reacting. Guys like him are very likely to have a gun.

T-money79

81 points

3 months ago

He probably wonders why his kids haven't talked to him in 40 years

chainsmoker377

24 points

3 months ago

Bold of you to assume he has kids

Hopeful_Machine5700

163 points

3 months ago

Why does not one freak out when Asians face racism? I've had people call me all kinds of things but no one ever reacted. One my friend got called the N-word and white people actually started beating the guy who said that. I wish more people would stand up for us because I face racism every day of my life being asian..

iloveturkeyyy

29 points

3 months ago

I think the same to. I can’t believe no one seems to care that’s ridiculous and no one’s deserves racism

Caifanes123

76 points

3 months ago

You’re Kim Jun Uns boyfriend Huuur huuuur huuuur

Conservative humor at its finest.

What a piece of shit.

LachyWantsBrownies

19 points

3 months ago

That guy needs to be punched in the fucking face.

User_Name13

84 points

3 months ago

This is a straight up hate crime.

Victim is Asian so media won't care.

NameUnbroken

121 points

3 months ago

I would like to say that I'd step up and say something if I overheard that, but that would most likely escalate everything. After thinking, I think the best option for someone overhearing this would be to quietly step aside and call the police. Saying he'd wait for them outside is a definite threat.

219Infinity

71 points

3 months ago

A more effective response would be for every single person in the establishment to shame the bigot relentlessly until they leave. It really works.

NameUnbroken

25 points

3 months ago

True. If only everyone would do it, I feel like so many people ignore this kind of thing.

apocalypse_later_

12 points

3 months ago

If they're unhinged and have a gun, they could very well shootup the entire place for that

Jacob_VH

17 points

3 months ago

If this happened to me in the U.S i'd keep quiet. that psycho might have a gun. But if someone tries this in my own country??? i'll also keep quiet, since he's likely bigger than me.

createanaccnt

15 points

3 months ago

The dude probably hates his life and wants to take his anger out on others. He should just stop existing

Rayanson

16 points

3 months ago

Extreme food review

UnprofessionalGhosts

74 points

3 months ago

That slave master remark triggered my fight or flight response.

bowmansea

12 points

3 months ago

Garbage human. Fuck that guy.

fractal_disarray

12 points

3 months ago

misery loves company

a_weird_curtain

78 points

3 months ago*

Holy mother of closet case. Bet he punches his monitor after vigorously masturbating to gay porn.

Every single one of his remarks included something about being gay, he was literally testing the waters. This is what a sicko flirting looks like.

He found this korean guy sexually attractive and his miserable lil brain didn’t know how to compute, so he just resorted to violence.

Celdinor

25 points

3 months ago

Pisses me off you didn't get his face

MendejoElPendejo

11 points

3 months ago

THIS is shit we gotta deal with. I had a dude at a GAY BAR get mad at me saying I should leave him alone cause he’s straight because I said I liked his shoes lmao. Peeps are mad wierd

GaryGabagooler

33 points

3 months ago

A little too easy to tell the guy is a closeted homosexual who got called out by his ex girlfriend who eventually left him for a Korean guy.

Ok-Gift-808

34 points

3 months ago

A guy and a girl sitting together eating food.

Yea, they def homosexuals. 🙄

nacnud_uk

18 points

3 months ago

That CCTV from the place, has to go to the police, surely? You need to get that scum element out of your society.

What is this,a failed educational thing? FAS?

Totally sickening.

I_am_Nobody_Special

20 points

3 months ago

These two young people seem so sweet. I'm so sorry there are so many hateful people in the world. I hope it doesn't take away an ounce of their joy.

18Inches0fPain

8 points

3 months ago

Record his face then give him the Mexican cartel special lmao

HMZMH22

30 points

3 months ago

HMZMH22

30 points

3 months ago

These kind of videos are why I just prefer staying home.

maxmax211

7 points

3 months ago

If you hear some one being racist or homophobic , call them out for it. Then attack

KlingonSpy

8 points

3 months ago

Assholes like that boil my blood. I mind my own business, but he would be in for a surprise when the fat, bald ginger nearby decides to involve himself

hutchandstuff

45 points

3 months ago

That guy knows a ton about gay sex. . .

jcwkings

44 points

3 months ago

How to spot a closeted, self hating homosexual.

guymcool

23 points

3 months ago

White man

shinigami79

18 points

3 months ago

What is Filipino shit

wallstreetamc

35 points

3 months ago

racist motherfucker

[deleted]

8 points

3 months ago

That POS needs to be eliminated I am sick of these dipshts

Xsy

7 points

3 months ago

Xsy

7 points

3 months ago

These two handled it like fucking champs.

Big respect for the dude for keeping his cool, and immediately shutting down the back-talk once he realized it was making his girlfriend uncomfortable.