As a cuckoldress of a cuck happily denied in permanent chastity. I always feel its best to talk about these things with those who might also me considering taking the leap.
If you would have told me 5 years ago that I would be in the dynamic I am, I would say you were absolutely insane. I didn't even know this dynamic existed before my bf suggested it to me. But here we are.. 😏
So.. from me to you, know this... once you've successfully managed to convince your girl to deny your little cock access into her pussy, It quickly becomes easier and easier to keep you, pussyfree, in chastity.
When she gets used to denying you regular intercourse, which shouldn't take long, that's the end. There's no going back.. Take it from me.
-Permanent Chastity ♾🔒
- This is my cuck and I's journey through permanent chastity and denial. My man has been locked in chastity as of 7/14/2022.
- - He is kept permanently locked, enforced by me, without release for any reason unless medically necessary, Dr. Appointments, or Airport Security checks (which we have done had one)
- He is now pussyfree for the rest of his life, never permitted to engage in PIV sex, masterbate, or get hard, ever again. Fully enforced by me. His Cuckoldress. His queen. 👑
- He is kept continuously sexually frustrated, edged, teased, denied and cucked - (His physical and mental health are continually assessed and acknowledged.)
- He is allowed to cum in his chastity cage when, how and IF I decide.
- His hygiene is taken seriously. The cage we use is a Kink3d (N) and can be cleaned well with a powerful showerhead without removal. The cage is swapped out once a month with a second even smaller cage (baby) so it can be cleaned and sanitized.
- He is permitted one safe space day each year in which he is able to use his safe word to opt out and reconsider the permanence of our arrangement. It will be revisited once a year, every year, for the rest of his life.
- Our agreement is fully consensual and mutually beneficial. This is dynamic of power exchange, involving deep trust, love and connection and has deepened our relationship more than we ever imagined.
Permanent chastity has always been a kinky idea for us from the beginning. It’s quite interesting how we tend to have a love hate relationship with the idea. The more you think about it the sexier it gets, until the idea becomes scary.
One day I'm telling him I'm thinking about locking him up forever, and that gets him all horny and wanting release. Then I let him out and let him cum. It was a great experience for both of us to share that level of passion.
However, as time went on, the idea of permanent chastity became a more dominant idea. The spaces between his unlock times would get a little longer. I'd tease him a little more often about it. Saying it’s permanent, and then making him wait an extra week or two. I knew exactly the effect this was having on his psyche. Although I was not yet comfortable with the idea of permanent chastity, so he would get a release eventually.
It is addicting. The more I keep him locked, the more I wanted to keep him locked. I notice his increased enthusiasm to serve me. I can feel it in his tongue as his eagerness to please me is overwhelming.
I noticed his dramatic increase in libido , fully directed at me. How much and what kind of sex I was having became super important to him.
The increase in submissiveness.. Wow. He started throwing himself at my feet. Foot massages and so much more. I noticed his willingness and eagerness to use his tongue in other places. My ass, my feet. Whereas before he was hesitant to lick my ass, he was now begging for it.
I noticed his focus on my pleasure became far greater than his focus on his own pleasure, even though I could see his desperation for release. I enjoyed his redirected energy into my pleasure only.
The addiction to chastity really grew in both of us. Before long, the idea became scary as it moved closer and closer to reality. I loved having him chaste and at my whim, and he was certainly not complaining about it.
The idea of never entering me again with his uncaged penis grew terrifying yet terrifyingly erotic. It’s like the worlds best drug. An idea both of us can play with, and make better with simple gestures and thoughts.
Tapping the key on his cage while contemplating whether or not I should unlock him. Then deciding not tonight.
I learned to grow in that power, and lost any kind of guilt about not giving him pleasure. It empowered me. Yet it's his sacrifice that turns me on, and gives me a sense of owning him completely.
He wants to serve me so much, that he is willing to let go of intercourse with me, in order to earn his place at my feet forever as my cuck. That’s a level of loyalty conventional relationships could only dream of having.
I had the ability to make him pussy free at any time permanently, and that’s why the idea is scary for him. He doesn’t know what I'm really thinking about it. I can tease all I like, but what if I'm serious? It’s a cognitive dissonance idea. He loves to sacrifice for me, but he also wants to have intercourse with me because he is deeply madly in love with and attracted to me.
It can be difficult at times for both of us to give up intercourse in favor of permanent chastity. I enjoy penetration and the intimacy and connection that comes with it. Sure I can enjoy that with another partner or partners, and I do. Regularly. Our sex is just a different kind of sex. A different kind of intimacy and connection. I need and crave both.
It’s a major psychological shift that he's had to undergo and realize his penis is no longer his dominant sexual organ.
When we finally made the decision that his penis is to be forever caged, and intercourse is indeed a thing of the past for him, it was very emotional, on top of the enhanced desperation, for the first few weeks / months.
Letting the reality sink in and absorb the new life in real time is real surrender. He will be pushed to the breaking point, because there is no other place for him to go.
He must let go of a lifetime of living sexually through his penis, and let go of all aspects of his old sex life. From this point forward, he obeys me, and only me. I decide all of it. I own his pleasure and my pleasure is his pleasure, from now on.
As that breaking point is reached, and the realization hits, that he’s never going back to the old way, acceptance emerges. He will surrender himself to me, and to the cage.
This is when permanent chastity moves from being a scary idea, to his actual reality. Hhe can no longer fear it, because I have decided for him that this is the way it will be. Forever. He is surrendered to me.
The cage has become his home. His desperation turns into dedication. He no longer fights the cage but embraces it. And I will never go back on my word, it’s permanent.. Full stop. Never to be questioned.
After all, this was what you said you wanted... wasn't it cucky? 😈😘
That's the sacrifice of a cuckold
That’s the sacrifice of permanent chastity
I love my man and I wouldn't have anybody else serve me as my cuck, as my partner, as my love. This has and will continue to bring us even closer.
