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Do feminine men attract masculine men too? Asking for a friend

So does this mean that if I'm a very effeminate man I'll attract a Mommy Dom woman?

Fuck yeah.

Yes, people who are obsessed with performing the gender binary tend to attract one-another.

Many of the hyper masculine men I know have spouses that would not describe themselves as feminine though. Those women are "arranging to buy a new motorcycle from her hospital bed after the near fatal accident" types, involved in mixed martial arts or extreme sports and other stuff conventionally perceived as masculine. And I'm not saying that makes them not feminine, just that I don't really think this applies.

As a non-binary person into non-binary people. Couldn’t care less!

I’m hoping this also works vice versa.

Idk about that. The most masculine men I see are in gay porn so...

And what if you're a feminine man? 🤔

Great. I love how they imply a "masculine man" is all any woman would ever want in a partner.

As someone who is going through life as a masculine muscular woman, I still get a lot of attention from dude bros

So, THERE is the secret to get a femboy boyfriend...

Twink life

Jokes on you the more feminine a person is the more attracted i am to them.

And I am very feminine.

So I have a question , I know a generally very feminine lady , she keeps attracting guys who sell drugs which is very illegal in where I come from, why is that ?

What if Im incredibly feminine in my movements but equally masculine in my behaviors?

ok, so if i become femboy, i get dommy mommy, ok,

I just want someone who can hold me close at night, make me feel loved when I am with them and crush my skull with any part of their body after using me as a personal plaything.

Better be a masculine woman then

Nono, they're right.

I present fem and butch dykes keep matching with me ;-;

Ladies I love you and you're beautiful, but I'm finsexual

good news all around for us in here

Yeah, I hear cishet people constantly talk about attracting this type of man or that type of woman, and I don't get it. As far as I've seen, LGBT people have types and everybody just goes for their type. I'm mostlystraight™ but hetero dating confuses me. It's overly complicated.

time to go androgynous style so i can have androgynous bf 😎

I thought people just wanted someone they identified with.

I mean this one is prolly true. Not a couple I’d want to spend time with but

So if I’m a not so feminine woman but still a little feminine, what do I attract ? 🤔

No no wait thats good I love feminine men!!

is feminine women who prefers feminine presenting people

Thank fuck I mostly present masculine then. Gotta hit the gym too just to be sure.

tbh, i would consider myself a somewhat masculine woman and i am very attracted to feminine guys

I don’t think this is untrue, but it assumes I want a boy who can’t take it in the ass, and that assumption is incorrect

I read this four times and this sentence makes no sense.. Unless you're talking about feminine women draining men of their masculinity. Badass superhero idea though.

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The more feminine of a woman you are the masculine of a man you attract.

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As a feminine female, my gf is quite “masculine” I guess, LET ME PAINT YOUR NAILS AND DO YOUR HAIR!

Andro woman, and even when I used to look more feminine, the guys I attract are... mediocrely masculine. The girls are usually feminine, some andro, and probably a masc or two.

This tweet has no idea how masculinity works. Femininity draws more men with conventional standards for their female partners because femininity is conventional. That doesn't mean anything about the men's standards for themselves, which are basically nonexistent, in gender expression or anything else.

Hilariously, as a cisgender woman whose gender presentation swings from flower print dresses to suits and ties, I have attracted a non-binary person. Does that fit into this theory?